Playful Method, Does It Work?

[Jmac]

Alright so this happened a little while back freshman yr in college (im about to be a sophomore in august). One day I was in my dorm a little bored and went out to go get food and find something to do @ the same time.

So Im walking and I pass by this tanning salon that has a sexy ass girl sitting in the front desk. I pass by get my food and on the way back I walk in. I say something like "hey im ready for my tan now" (btw im black). So she looks at me with a little smirk and confused face, she asked if I had an. appointment and I said I dont need one. Long story short we ended up having a good laugh, but she had graduated college and felt she was too old for me *sigh*

But can someone evaluate this situation, is it effective? What could I have done better?

 

[alxrose04]

I love the playful attitude. Great approach! The playful attitude will never lead you wrong. The only time I can see it backfiring is when her cat died. She was laughing and stayed interested in the conversation so those were all great signs. Well played in my eyes, sir!

 

[Jmac]

I love the playful attitude. Great approach! The playful attitude will never lead you wrong. The only time I can see it backfiring is when her cat died. She was laughing and stayed interested in the conversation so those were all great signs. Well played in my eyes, sir!

thanks, the problem with it is ever since college started I feel Ive lost my sense of humor and have become way too serious. That day I just felt loose and my old self so it went smooth. I wish I had that same feeling daily.

 

[Young Juan]

Playful is pretty much all I really know how to do. I hear that it confuses some girls since they're unsure of if you're serious or not. When girls give pushback, you gotta keep pushin harder, in a playful way of course, and eventually they usually wear down and give their number.