"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Player Supreme Destroys Sosuave Member

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gangster Of Love

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Hahaha. Haven't listened to Supreme's rant, but if it has to do with the SS poster being a girly, wuss, etc. he's dead on. As I recall, plenty of fellows here ripped on that Dante guy for that post, but I'm sure PS had a very unique take. Now onto listen to it!!!! Then I'll come and post.

Update:

Yeah, pretty much what members here told the OP, just delivered in PS fashion. LoL. That is funny ****. I am sure that girls is very special, though! Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa haaaaa haaaa haaa!
 

joe henny

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Player Supreme is the man his advice has helped my game so much
 

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OOOh this Post! You know how it happened. I was on here and saw it and posted it to thos site I am a member there. We all were disgusted.
 

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Oh my god, it's horrible! Some guy verbally assaults another random guy! Everyone....run! :crackup:

What's with all the unnecessary drama?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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He did an excellent job of calling the OP a ***** and comparing himself in manliness.

He didn't do as well saying what he would've done. I'm guessing he would've *****slapped her back. Which, of course, is a dumb-as-**** move.
 

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I would have thought it was a signal to play harder. Am I wrong?
 

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That was pretty funny! "He is such a good snuggler. I want to ***** slap his father." Player was quite upset and enraged about this thread that is for sure.
 

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you are all b1tches.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FairShake said:
He didn't do as well saying what he would've done. I'm guessing he would've *****slapped her back. Which, of course, is a dumb-as-**** move.
The correct reaction in my opinion would have been C&F. Smack her a$$ (not softly), give her a smile as she is shock and then walk away without saying a word (preferably out of the place not to come back).
 

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The thing I hate most about this site is that people come here to share their struggles and how they feel about stuff. Yeah, guys have feelings too both emotional and physical. Sure maybe you are good at hiding yours but it doesn't mean you don't have it. The double edged sword is that being open with ur feelings is how u connect with a girl but at the same time she can use it against you.
Anyway, that guy just called that sosuave memeber a piss of sh!t all because he came here to ask for advice on how he should've handled a situation. Maybe he should've been manly and shot the b!tch then or pretend that her hitting hard enough was just a girly tap. Listening to that guy's comment on Youtube was just so appauling.
 

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jafyk said:
The thing I hate most about this site is that people come here to share their struggles and how they feel about stuff. Yeah, guys have feelings too both emotional and physical. Sure maybe you are good at hiding yours but it doesn't mean you don't have it. The double edged sword is that being open with ur feelings is how u connect with a girl but at the same time she can use it against you.
Anyway, that guy just called that sosuave memeber a piss of sh!t all because he came here to ask for advice on how he should've handled a situation. Maybe he should've been manly and shot the b!tch then or pretend that her hitting hard enough was just a girly tap. Listening to that guy's comment on Youtube was just so appauling.
Your post does have merit and I totally agree with, "The double edged sword is that being open with ur feelings is how u connect with a girl but at the same time she can use it against you."


Player Supreme totally slammed the guy and IMO, it was funny to an extent.

The problem in particular with this post in question to me was this: The original poster DID want advice because of his situation. That much is undeniable. But the OP came across as petulant when he wanted advice right away. He even went as far as telling another member that he would make him bleed because of an unwanted post.

I learned something from dad and I usually stick with it. Never put yourself in an embarrassing situation. The OP did just that. If he would have put more thought into the post instead of using emotions to drive what he was typing maybe he would have not been hammered so badly.

Thing is this also: If you were play fighting with a buddy and got hit, how would you react? Same goes for the girl that hit him. Do not play these type of games if you will not like the outcome. If a woman smacked the t total $hit out of me and I was instigating it, it would be hard to be upset. Sometimes people get carried away during the moment.

I do believe this is the same Player Supreme that was banned from here. Somebody help me on this if I am wrong.
 

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I dont see how this is productive to help the OP... beating a dead horse.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There is a way to ask for help/ advice without being over bearing is what my point was all about.
 

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Radharc said:
I dont see how this is productive to help the OP... beating a dead horse.
its not positive or productive at all. its just elitist/cliquish nonsense to make nobodies feel special at someone elses expense.

think about it:

if this sites "so bad" why do they troll and stalk the people on it so much?

because this is the major leagues, thats the minors, this sites been here and will be here and their sites run their course and die out because theyre based upon a gimmick, fad, or talking smack about other people.
 

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Player Supreme is what happens when your football career doesn't pan out. :cheer:
 

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maqnetik said:
its not positive or productive at all. its just elitist/cliquish nonsense to make nobodies feel special at someone elses expense.

think about it:

if this sites "so bad" why do they troll and stalk the people on it so much?

because this is the major leagues, thats the minors, this sites been here and will be here and their sites run their course and die out because theyre based upon a gimmick, fad, or talking smack about other people.

I used to be a student of player supreme's. And that's how I found this place. He used to call it the funny pages for all the lame and noobish posts. And he's right, there are a sh1t ton of lame and noobish post. He uses this place as an example to his guys on what not to do. But to judge an entire board on the quality of it's questions is wrong. The real judgement should be held for the advice given. If it's bad advice, it's a bad board.
 

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Warrior74 said:
I used to be a student of player supreme's. And that's how I found this place. He used to call it the funny pages for all the lame and noobish posts. And he's right, there are a sh1t ton of lame and noobish post. He uses this place as an example to his guys on what not to do. But to judge an entire board on the quality of it's questions is wrong. The real judgement should be held for the advice given. If it's bad advice, it's a bad board.
the noobs need to be able to post somewhere, some people need to ask the simple questions .... they take a little longer
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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