"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Raikojo17

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List you player stats. no where you're strong and where you need to improve. lol

Name: Raikojo17
Confidence: 6
Conversation skills: 7
Sexual state: 5
C&F: 7
Rejection recovery: 10
Body Language: 7
over all game average:7

im improving on my confidence and sexual state vibes. i've gotten alot better at being more open with chicks when first meeting them and letting the real me shine through, but im still alittle hesitant on fully exspressing my sexuality to them, and often times dont escalate to something more very often than just playful flirting.

feel free to add any stats you might want.
good luck djing
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this i find a very good thread! its a way for us all to show how good we are in the game without actually bragging, excellent - here's me:

Confidence - 8
Conversation Skill - 10
Sexual State - 10
Push/Pull (more useful than C & F) - 9
Rejection Recovery - 2 (absolutely get HEATED from rejection)
Body Language - 7
Manipulation (very key in being a player) - 8
Escalation/Isolation/Sex close - 10
Overall - 8
 
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to add to mine, my biggest setback is getting pissed and angry over little things, and i must say it happens alot. This is usually how i lose girls when I do - its just alot of girls end up pissing me off one way or another, maybe cuz i don't like to take shyt and i see thru excuses and bullshyt
 
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absolut honesty said:
to add to mine, my biggest setback is getting pissed and angry over little things, and i must say it happens alot. This is usually how i lose girls when I do - its just alot of girls end up pissing me off one way or another, maybe cuz i don't like to take shyt and i see thru excuses and bullshyt
How come you got such great stats but you just joined this month?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Meccamputechture said:
How come you got such great stats but you just joined this month?

i guess its necesarry to be part of sosuave for years in order to be successful with girls?

stop trolling, shut ur mouth, and take the advice thats given to u
 

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absolut honesty said:
to add to mine, my biggest setback is getting pissed and angry over little things, and i must say it happens alot. This is usually how i lose girls when I do - its just alot of girls end up pissing me off one way or another, maybe cuz i don't like to take shyt and i see thru excuses and bullshyt
yea bro. i used to be just like that. but i just learned not to care, and let the stupid girls be stupid. lol their loss right?
 
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Play the Game said:
I have that exact problem... :box:

thats why ive posted on the whole girls not calling back thing or flaking with an excuse, and i clearly state that i DONT overanalyze anything. I AM THE MAN, i have the POWER - and i will call her on her shyt and tell her shes being a bytch and can take her excuses to some other chump

its a way to "next" the bytch but at the same time not have any left over anger
 

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Yea sometimes i feel like i shouldn't be angry... but there isn't a better way, when they just waste my time.
I have a deadly fear of turning back into an AFC.
 
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Raikojo17 said:
yea bro. i used to be just like that. but i just learned not to care, and let the stupid girls be stupid. lol their loss right?

id say its better to get the anger off ur chest and direct it at the bytch who deserves it, that way u will have a clean slate with the next girl and not have any built up anger.

remember, all anger should be directed at THE BYTCH who caused it, and not at all women period.

that's why through the years i've been able to hate soooo many girls (probly over 100), but at the same time, ive been able to love and date so many girls too.

Direct the anger where it needs to be directed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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absolut honesty said:
i guess its necesarry to be part of sosuave for years in order to be successful with girls?

stop trolling, shut ur mouth, and take the advice thats given to u
I don't see why your so hostile toward me. I just wanted to know how you became so good only joining the board this month.
 

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Meccamputechture said:
How come you got such great stats but you just joined this month?
how abouty our stats bro?
just keep in mind that this is to improve, not to show how alpha and sweet you are and all that. be honest. honesty is the first step to improving :up:
 
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Yea sometimes i feel like i shouldn't be angry... but there isn't a better way when they just waste my time.
I have a deadly fear of turning back into an AFC.

shouldnt? says who? the society that is manipulating guys to be chumps?? see EXACTLY what im talkin about..........there is no shouldnt, u can be as angry as u want, read my above reply to Rajoko or w/e

afc would be a guy who sits there and analyzes

real man is the guy who gets pissed and lets it be known.....u know why? because he doesnt care and does what he wants!
 
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Raikojo17 said:
how abouty our stats bro?
just keep in mind that this is to improve, not to show how alpha and sweet you are and all that. be honest. honesty is the first step to improving :up:
comic_relief told me it takes 6months or longer. And I just wanted to know how he got so good so fast. In like less than a month? I thought maybe he had some good information to share.
 

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Name: Lompa
Confidence: 6
Conversation skills: 8
Sexual state: 6
C&F: 8
Rejection recovery: 8
Body Language: 9
over all game average: i am a soild 7.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Meccamputechture said:
comic_relief told me it takes 6months or longer. And I just wanted to know how he got so good so fast. In like less than a month? I thought maybe he had some good information to share.


millions of guys are good with girls without ever reading a single thing or joining a sinle seduction site

im one of them

by the way how stupid are u man?
 

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absolut honesty said:
shouldnt? says who? the society that is manipulating guys to be chumps?? see EXACTLY what im talkin about..........there is no shouldnt, u can be as angry as u want, read my above reply to Rajoko or w/e

afc would be a guy who sits there and analyzes

real man is the guy who gets pissed and lets it be known.....u know why? because he doesnt care and does what he wants!
Not bad for a newbie. :)

I have a feeling were about on the same page.

Sometimes i just have trouble justifying my anger afterwards to myself... i get thoughts like, maybe i over reacted.
 

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Name: Modro
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Conversation skills: 7
Sexual state: 4
C&F: 9
Rejection recovery: 6 (if it is someone i just met 8)
Body Language: 7.5
over all game average: 6.5
 
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absolut honesty said:
millions of guys are good with girls without ever reading a single thing or joining a sinle seduction site

im one of them

by the way how stupid are u man?
Than why are you here?

I guess I'm stupid.
 

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This is a stupid thread. Nobody is going to come on and say "I'm a 1 in confidence" or "I'm a 2 in Conversation skills." Just like all the girls the guys get or try to get in FRs are going to be 6-7+, nobody is going to have truly sub-par scores.*

*Except Modro, who seems pretty honest. Good on you, Modro!

Edit: Just to qualify my remarks, I'm not saying anyone in this thread is stupid, including Raikojo17; just that this thread is.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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