"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Raikojo17

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List you player stats. no where you're strong and where you need to improve. lol

Name: Raikojo17
Confidence: 6
Conversation skills: 7
Sexual state: 5
C&F: 7
Rejection recovery: 10
Body Language: 7
over all game average:7

im improving on my confidence and sexual state vibes. i've gotten alot better at being more open with chicks when first meeting them and letting the real me shine through, but im still alittle hesitant on fully exspressing my sexuality to them, and often times dont escalate to something more very often than just playful flirting.

feel free to add any stats you might want.
good luck djing
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this i find a very good thread! its a way for us all to show how good we are in the game without actually bragging, excellent - here's me:

Confidence - 8
Conversation Skill - 10
Sexual State - 10
Push/Pull (more useful than C & F) - 9
Rejection Recovery - 2 (absolutely get HEATED from rejection)
Body Language - 7
Manipulation (very key in being a player) - 8
Escalation/Isolation/Sex close - 10
Overall - 8
 
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to add to mine, my biggest setback is getting pissed and angry over little things, and i must say it happens alot. This is usually how i lose girls when I do - its just alot of girls end up pissing me off one way or another, maybe cuz i don't like to take shyt and i see thru excuses and bullshyt
 
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absolut honesty said:
to add to mine, my biggest setback is getting pissed and angry over little things, and i must say it happens alot. This is usually how i lose girls when I do - its just alot of girls end up pissing me off one way or another, maybe cuz i don't like to take shyt and i see thru excuses and bullshyt
How come you got such great stats but you just joined this month?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Meccamputechture said:
How come you got such great stats but you just joined this month?

i guess its necesarry to be part of sosuave for years in order to be successful with girls?

stop trolling, shut ur mouth, and take the advice thats given to u
 

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absolut honesty said:
to add to mine, my biggest setback is getting pissed and angry over little things, and i must say it happens alot. This is usually how i lose girls when I do - its just alot of girls end up pissing me off one way or another, maybe cuz i don't like to take shyt and i see thru excuses and bullshyt
yea bro. i used to be just like that. but i just learned not to care, and let the stupid girls be stupid. lol their loss right?
 
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Play the Game said:
I have that exact problem... :box:

thats why ive posted on the whole girls not calling back thing or flaking with an excuse, and i clearly state that i DONT overanalyze anything. I AM THE MAN, i have the POWER - and i will call her on her shyt and tell her shes being a bytch and can take her excuses to some other chump

its a way to "next" the bytch but at the same time not have any left over anger
 

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Yea sometimes i feel like i shouldn't be angry... but there isn't a better way, when they just waste my time.
I have a deadly fear of turning back into an AFC.
 
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yea bro. i used to be just like that. but i just learned not to care, and let the stupid girls be stupid. lol their loss right?

id say its better to get the anger off ur chest and direct it at the bytch who deserves it, that way u will have a clean slate with the next girl and not have any built up anger.

remember, all anger should be directed at THE BYTCH who caused it, and not at all women period.

that's why through the years i've been able to hate soooo many girls (probly over 100), but at the same time, ive been able to love and date so many girls too.

Direct the anger where it needs to be directed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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absolut honesty said:
i guess its necesarry to be part of sosuave for years in order to be successful with girls?

stop trolling, shut ur mouth, and take the advice thats given to u
I don't see why your so hostile toward me. I just wanted to know how you became so good only joining the board this month.
 

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Meccamputechture said:
How come you got such great stats but you just joined this month?
how abouty our stats bro?
just keep in mind that this is to improve, not to show how alpha and sweet you are and all that. be honest. honesty is the first step to improving :up:
 
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Yea sometimes i feel like i shouldn't be angry... but there isn't a better way when they just waste my time.
I have a deadly fear of turning back into an AFC.

shouldnt? says who? the society that is manipulating guys to be chumps?? see EXACTLY what im talkin about..........there is no shouldnt, u can be as angry as u want, read my above reply to Rajoko or w/e

afc would be a guy who sits there and analyzes

real man is the guy who gets pissed and lets it be known.....u know why? because he doesnt care and does what he wants!
 
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Raikojo17 said:
how abouty our stats bro?
just keep in mind that this is to improve, not to show how alpha and sweet you are and all that. be honest. honesty is the first step to improving :up:
comic_relief told me it takes 6months or longer. And I just wanted to know how he got so good so fast. In like less than a month? I thought maybe he had some good information to share.
 

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Name: Lompa
Confidence: 6
Conversation skills: 8
Sexual state: 6
C&F: 8
Rejection recovery: 8
Body Language: 9
over all game average: i am a soild 7.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Meccamputechture said:
comic_relief told me it takes 6months or longer. And I just wanted to know how he got so good so fast. In like less than a month? I thought maybe he had some good information to share.


millions of guys are good with girls without ever reading a single thing or joining a sinle seduction site

im one of them

by the way how stupid are u man?
 

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absolut honesty said:
shouldnt? says who? the society that is manipulating guys to be chumps?? see EXACTLY what im talkin about..........there is no shouldnt, u can be as angry as u want, read my above reply to Rajoko or w/e

afc would be a guy who sits there and analyzes

real man is the guy who gets pissed and lets it be known.....u know why? because he doesnt care and does what he wants!
Not bad for a newbie. :)

I have a feeling were about on the same page.

Sometimes i just have trouble justifying my anger afterwards to myself... i get thoughts like, maybe i over reacted.
 

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Name: Modro
Confidence: 4
Conversation skills: 7
Sexual state: 4
C&F: 9
Rejection recovery: 6 (if it is someone i just met 8)
Body Language: 7.5
over all game average: 6.5
 
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absolut honesty said:
millions of guys are good with girls without ever reading a single thing or joining a sinle seduction site

im one of them

by the way how stupid are u man?
Than why are you here?

I guess I'm stupid.
 

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This is a stupid thread. Nobody is going to come on and say "I'm a 1 in confidence" or "I'm a 2 in Conversation skills." Just like all the girls the guys get or try to get in FRs are going to be 6-7+, nobody is going to have truly sub-par scores.*

*Except Modro, who seems pretty honest. Good on you, Modro!

Edit: Just to qualify my remarks, I'm not saying anyone in this thread is stupid, including Raikojo17; just that this thread is.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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