Player friend said he makes women wait

[BillyPilgrim]

Attraction is not a choice. She knows at first glance if she would have your babies or not. There’s nothing we have to “do.”

Attraction doesn't convert to sex by itself. You have to nurture and milk it. At the point where she's aware she's attracted (the first glance), her pus$y isn't wet at that point. She might have a tingle, but you want to get her wet.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

It's funny how everyone here thinks they're mind readers.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Attraction doesn't convert to sex by itself. You have to nurture and milk it. At the point where she's aware she's attracted (the first glance), her pus$y isn't wet at that point. She might have a tingle, but you want to get her wet.

What most guys fail to understand is that when a woman is attracted all he has to do is lead the interaction and not turn her off. Nature takes care of the rest. Women choose you. Don’t fvck it up.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I disagree. Attraction should be amplified/maximized, not simply "maintained." The idea is to get her hot.

Then again, I could be dealing with women (older) with lower sex drives than you guys are. Lol.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I’m sure there’s more to it than he’s letting on. I went the first 24 years of my life oblivious to game and oblivious to why girls were always talking to me, following me around, and asking what I was doing that weekend. I stayed a virgin till 28 when I decided to “get desperate”. Just my experience

 

[Chamber36]

Yeah. The only thing us guys have to learn is how to 'maintain' a girl's attraction.

We can't create anything. She naturally either wants to fvck us, marry us, or kill us.

I agree.

Most of the time attraction is there. Then at some point you put your foot in your mouth... At least in the beginning, when you learn to understand game.

 

[Chamber36]

Hitch said it best -

It's no longer your job to make her like you. It's your job not to fvck it up.

In the beginning, I noticed sometimes girls would kind of walk off if I kept talking. Then I read The Game and absorbed this calm inviting energy that just magically seemed to make women attracted. It's weird.

All you need to do is not fvck it up indeed. Show confidence. Don't show insecurity. Be the leader of your own realm and the decider of your fate and remain calm.

If you are unafraid to break eyecontact and in a state of mind like that, women will start gushing juices right away.

Then you can do the thing where you talk slow and pause your sentences to increase the suspense.

Add to that some bravado and sexual voraciousness and I think you are golden.

 

[Chamber36]

I thought this was interesting. I was talking with a buddy of mine today who is very good with women, and he said when you're dating a woman and they want to get physical, they will let you know. I asked him to elaborate.

He was like "Making a move on them doesn't turn them on, waiting for their emotions to get involved and having them wonder why you haven't made the move is what hooks them." I hadn't thought about it like that.

He's dating a solid 9 right now. I asked him "Doesn't it show confidence when you try to get physical with a girl quickly?" He said "No, it makes you look desperate."

Thoughts, opinions?

I am gonna have to agree.

Show self control, patience, pride and scrutiny.

Corey Wayne also says in his book 3% Man, if you are out on a date to let the girl grab your hand instead of grabbing hers. She will signal to you when she wants to progress.

If you also spend the time working on yourself, hitting the gym and taking care of yourself, women will want to consume you and you can set your terms.

This is advanced game, but true game. No simping involved or allowed. No money or flexing involved. Just pride and self control.

 

[BeExcellent]

More guys need to find this forum.

All of my guy friends give advice along the lines of, 'just have a talk with her and tell her how you feel.'

Facepalm

 

[Chamber36]

More guys need to find this forum.

All of my guy friends give advice along the lines of, 'just have a talk with her and tell her how you feel.'

5 minutes later in the girls whatsapp group

"Wait til you get a load of this!"

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

maintaining a girl's attraction will not lead to sekc.

What will?

 

[Atom Smasher]

As usual, this advice works wonders for those who can pull it off. Some can, some can’t.
Making them wait has almost always been my “go-to” technique. The advantage is that they wonder what’s wrong with them. The hamster wheel is spinning... “Why don’t I turn him on?”

It brings the power of IDGAF to a whole new level. However, if you wait too long, her Interest can start to fade.

The trick to many ideas here on the forum is to experiment. Be willing to lose some in the short term in order to have abundance long-term. We men usually act with such an attitude of scarcity and lack that it’s difficult to risk the loss of any given prospect. Once you realize how replaceable they are, it’s much easier to hone your game to a razor-sharp edge.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

It also makes you look gay.

I they ever tell you this it's a **** test, they know what you're doing and they know you're winning, and they hate it

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

I showed my friend this thread. He just chuckled and said "I wouldn't be looking to the internet for advice about women."

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

My buddy and I were having a couple drinks and he was explaining this in more detail to me.

He said "Most guys overpursue. They're so worried about whether the woman likes them they make a move before she even has a chance to decide how she feels. They feel pressured, back away and lose interest. Her emotions have to be invested before yours. She has to wonder how you feel."

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

This advice seems to go against what we have been told for a long time: If you don't act sexual right off the bat or you are afraid to show your sexual desire the woman will be turned off.

But maybe it could be like...

This guys had so much sex that it doesn't impress him anymore. Do you really think the girls want the horny high school freshman? Lol.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

This advice seems to go against what we have been told for a long time: If you don't act sexual right off the bat or you are afraid to show your sexual desire the woman will be turned off.

I showed him that post and he said "If you want to scare women off, go ahead and do it."

 

[Velasco]

"If you want to scare women off, go ahead and do it."

not if she's already in that headspace.

 

[derby1]

way to much brain salad, and analysis.

loads of blue pill guys with low IQs are getting laid regularly and they dont do any of this Don Juan psycho analysing.

I kiss on the first date, so she knows its lust based and not transaction based, I lead she follows.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I was actually thinking the other day...

The only way to form a REAL relationship with a girl is for sex to not be at the center of it.

I'm not claiming to be capable of this.

Many times, girls will think a guy is "immature" if he only wants sex... When in fact perhaps he's just realized that's all females can offer him. It's better than wasting everyone's time.