“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Played perfectly to a point, situational question?

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faiNt`

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(completely different situation/girl than last post(s).)

HB 9 in my math class. We met through some intense EC in the first week of school and as luck would have it, our seats were put directly in front of one another, at the back of the class. Had some fun with that, learned a little about her, she hinted that she didn't like this guy who her friends had been trying to get her to go out with. I didn't take the bait because I wasn't as confident in my abilities as I am now. They went out for a month or longer.

We had group work and like always she comes and chills in my group with a few other friends. I start kino'ing heavily and flirting. I know I'm doing it right up to here.

Recently she broke it off with that guy. I told her we were doing X on Y of this week and she should come. She said she hasn't X'd since she was younger and would love to blah blah. On the same day, I asked her what she was doing Friday, and she replied, "you." (I had said this to her previously before that.)

I followed up by telling her to text me her address and I'd be over Friday. Next day I come in and say that things changed, something came up, I had to cancel Tuesday, but Friday I would be over. She said something like "nahhhah you had your chance." and I replied "haha maybe some other time" to which she responed with a flirty/distant sounding "no/nah/nope."

I feel like that would be two strikes, however I also feel like one strike cancels out because I flaked on her, even if it was legit.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well what you should do is just keep doing things as you normally would...dont ask her to hang out again though for at least another few days, cuz you dont wanna come off as needy or desperate.

Just shrug the whole thing off, DONT freak out, and keep doing your thing.

Personally, I think this chick is just playin hard-to-get, and is gettin a little kick out of messin around with you (and by messin around with you, im referring to when she said you had your change and all that stuff). If she was TRULY interested, she wouldnt completely ditch you just cuz you flaked on ONE of the two dates you set up with her.
 
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