"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Played it perfectly so far... Advice

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Quick summary guys -

Been seeing one women for the past 2 weeks. Out of the 50+ women I've dated this year, I actually like this one. So far done everything right, not messaging much,making statements not questions , being dominant physically, giving orders, deciding what we do not paying for everything etc...

What I wanted to ask.. She's started a new job recently and because of our conflicting work schedules she isn't free until weds unless they offer her shifts for weds which in that case she would work. So, do I ask her when her next free day is? or when she can meet up next?

I do honestly want to see her. But so far I have played everything right (busy, don't make myself available, don't message her much) and don't wanna come across needy...I even went round hers on Saturday night when she had flu and she paid for takeaway.

Guessing I leave it for her to say when she is next free and able to meet? She's said she can't wait to see me next..

Advice would be appreciated
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do what you want.

When are you free again, etc.

If a woman's interest level is high, you can get away with murder. Its when their interest level is lower than yours you have to split hairs and "game" them.

Anymore if its seems like I have to manipulate or play 9th grade games, I just lose interest asap and ghost them. Its then that their interest may come up and I might get interested again. If not, oh well.
 
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To be honest, it is a little difficult as I do want to hear how her day as been as naturally I guess I'm more of a beta male(doh) so being aloof /uninterested is kinda difficult to me although I know it is the right thing to do especially as women like a challenge and not needy men.

I just kind of want confirmation I guess.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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imnius said:
same best tip i always get... go game some other girls in the mean time.
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Just as well that I'm seeing someone else then although she's not mega keen on me lol... And I prefer the one mentioned above. I won't message her I'll wait for her to get back to me.
 
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