"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Play your game not hers

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Have any of you ever played sports?

if you have then you know..the object is to get them to play your style.

I see a lot of posts in here about well what do I do here?

or how do I react when she does this?

who cares...play your game..and be sure of ur chances to win...this is called Confidence. and I am huge stressor of this. I believe with this tool..you can accomplish nearly anything you want.

my most succcessful experiences in life..were when I was driven with goal. knowing I had the confidence to put forth my BEST EFFORT.

for instance...I smoke weed...a lot of my friends smoke weed. but NONE of them will tell a girl that..they go out and they lie about themselves.

recently I was talking a girl and within 3 min..she asked me what I was doing after I left the bar..I said im gonna drive home..fire up a fat boy and go to bed.

she said oh you smoke? Instead of hedging and making up some bull**** ass excuse because I am unsure of myself.

I said yea..you should do it with me..its better with people.

she said no..I dont smoke..but she gave me her number anyways..why? because I was sure of myself.

now I know there will be instances where I will be in the same shoes and the girl wont give me her number because she doenst like weed.

the point was I was SURE OF MYSELF and WHAT I DO.

I smoke everyday...thats right..I toke up everyday.

I work 40 to 50 hours per week..take 3 classes, workout, see my family and friends, and WOMEN!

the point is..this is what I want to do. and being sure of my life and my choices..immediatly gives off a positive vibe to the people I meet.

be Confident in who you are and the choices u make.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hell yeah man, let's blaze a bowl and forget about the nagging of the ladies...

I like the green more than the women, It makes me a better DJ.
 

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Actually, on another note:

I never hesitate about letting a girl know I smoke. I don't go around shouting it from rooftops, but if they party or hang out with me enough, they are gonna catch me red-eyed ;) Most girls don't care that I smoke one way or the other (never had any negative responses), and it actually tends to make girls that are heavy drinkers or smokers or whatever (typical in college girls) feel more comfortable about themselves around you.

Also, if you sell, you automatically get tons of "bad boy" appeal, but you have to keep consistent with it, but if you're good at being the bad-boy drug dealer, young girls (college girls) eat that sh*t up like chocolate.
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Nocturnal
is this a tip or an argument that it's ok to smoke?
There's more of an underlying theme that it's okay to be confident in the choices you make, with s-s-smokin' the reefer used as an example.

… I think.
 

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Originally posted by Von Neuen
There's more of an underlying theme that it's okay to be confident in the choices you make, with s-s-smokin' the reefer used as an example.

… I think.
what do you mean you think. Of course that is the point.

Be confident with who you are and don't give a fùck about what other think about what you love to do.

If you love to smoke weed and the chicks doesn't dig it, don't change your life for her. Get it now guys?
 
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