"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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okay, so the girl that everyone thought will be going to prom with me told me she has someone else in mind when i asked her. I wasnt bothered by that. But now that "someone else" wants to talk to me about prom, possibly regarding the girl. I dont know what to say yet so i told him im busy and ill talk to him later (sadly, a friend of mine) i dont know what he's going to say and i dont really know whats going on right now either. He kept asking me "who are you asking to the prom" and i dont know how to answer... i dont wanna lose my cool by submitting to him. Know what i mean?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oni said:
Know what i mean?
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No. If she has someone else in mind, and that someone else is your friend, just tell that someone else that you're asking a different girl to the prom and she's free game. That is, if you don't plan on asking that girl. Maybe I don't understand the situation fully.
 
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Oh well, to cut long story short, i've debated too long about wanting to go to prom or not and now that i do, im runnign out of time, i have roughly 6 weeks before prom and no date. my options are very low right now. unless i ask underclassmen. i know a couple but i dont talk to them often. If i were to ask one of the underclassmen, where will be the best place to start since i dont talk to them much nor see them.
 
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Oni said:
Oh well, to cut long story short, i've debated too long about wanting to go to prom or not and now that i do, im runnign out of time, i have roughly 6 weeks before prom and no date. my options are very low right now. unless i ask underclassmen. i know a couple but i dont talk to them often. If i were to ask one of the underclassmen, where will be the best place to start since i dont talk to them much nor see them.
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Well, you can start "talking" to the girls. It will be hard...but difficulty makes it interesting.
 
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