"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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okay, so the girl that everyone thought will be going to prom with me told me she has someone else in mind when i asked her. I wasnt bothered by that. But now that "someone else" wants to talk to me about prom, possibly regarding the girl. I dont know what to say yet so i told him im busy and ill talk to him later (sadly, a friend of mine) i dont know what he's going to say and i dont really know whats going on right now either. He kept asking me "who are you asking to the prom" and i dont know how to answer... i dont wanna lose my cool by submitting to him. Know what i mean?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oni said:
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No. If she has someone else in mind, and that someone else is your friend, just tell that someone else that you're asking a different girl to the prom and she's free game. That is, if you don't plan on asking that girl. Maybe I don't understand the situation fully.
 
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Oh well, to cut long story short, i've debated too long about wanting to go to prom or not and now that i do, im runnign out of time, i have roughly 6 weeks before prom and no date. my options are very low right now. unless i ask underclassmen. i know a couple but i dont talk to them often. If i were to ask one of the underclassmen, where will be the best place to start since i dont talk to them much nor see them.
 
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Oni said:
Oh well, to cut long story short, i've debated too long about wanting to go to prom or not and now that i do, im runnign out of time, i have roughly 6 weeks before prom and no date. my options are very low right now. unless i ask underclassmen. i know a couple but i dont talk to them often. If i were to ask one of the underclassmen, where will be the best place to start since i dont talk to them much nor see them.
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Well, you can start "talking" to the girls. It will be hard...but difficulty makes it interesting.
 
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