"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Platonic Relationships?

Champ Slice

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Is it possible to have a 100% completely platonic relationship with the opposite sex?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

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Yeah, if you're not attracted, or have enough self control.
 

bigneil

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Are you a Middle Eastern man used to having arranged marriages?

Why do you insist she be platonic? Because you are insecure.
 

Victory Unlimited

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A good follow up question would be:

"Why would a MAN want a platonic relationship with a woman? "

Experience has taught me over the years that most ADULT men only find themselves in platonic relationships as a result of the woman's decision---not theirs.

Are we mistaking a Platonic Relationship for being Forced into the Friend Zone?


http://victoryunlimitedshow.com/gen...ling-them-to-become-friends-with-women-first/
 

SmooveMooves

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I find this topic interesting. I've never been able to reach a conclusion. The women I'm usually friends with are:

A. Unattractive
B. Off the market - taken
C. Cirucumstance boundary - She's my sisters best friend. Etc.

I've yet to be strictly platonic friends with any chick whose passes the boner test. If shes decent looking we usually end up smashing somewhere along the line.

I think it's impossible.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Pfft, yeah. What kind of a question is this? It's perfectly 'possible', it just often times doesn't happen in the long term.
 

dude99

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Is it possible to have a 100% completely platonic relationship with the opposite sex?
The only way for this to work is if the guy has 0 attraction to her and still wants to have her in his life as a friend.

If it's the other way around then the woman will wind up using that to her advantage.
 
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