"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Platonic Relationships?

Champ Slice

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Is it possible to have a 100% completely platonic relationship with the opposite sex?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wifehunter

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Yeah, if you're not attracted, or have enough self control.
 

bigneil

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Are you a Middle Eastern man used to having arranged marriages?

Why do you insist she be platonic? Because you are insecure.
 

Victory Unlimited

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A good follow up question would be:

"Why would a MAN want a platonic relationship with a woman? "

Experience has taught me over the years that most ADULT men only find themselves in platonic relationships as a result of the woman's decision---not theirs.

Are we mistaking a Platonic Relationship for being Forced into the Friend Zone?


http://victoryunlimitedshow.com/gen...ling-them-to-become-friends-with-women-first/
 

SmooveMooves

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I find this topic interesting. I've never been able to reach a conclusion. The women I'm usually friends with are:

A. Unattractive
B. Off the market - taken
C. Cirucumstance boundary - She's my sisters best friend. Etc.

I've yet to be strictly platonic friends with any chick whose passes the boner test. If shes decent looking we usually end up smashing somewhere along the line.

I think it's impossible.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Pfft, yeah. What kind of a question is this? It's perfectly 'possible', it just often times doesn't happen in the long term.
 

dude99

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Is it possible to have a 100% completely platonic relationship with the opposite sex?
The only way for this to work is if the guy has 0 attraction to her and still wants to have her in his life as a friend.

If it's the other way around then the woman will wind up using that to her advantage.
 
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