Plates.

[Rainman4707]

Is this American thing?
I'm just wondering how you guys operate with women
I've been seeing a bird for four month now. She wants relationship. I've told her to wait & give us time. I'm meeting another woman tonight, but I'm not gonna tell my bird this as she wouldn't be happy.

I don't think most birds would be happy if you were still seeing other birds four months down the line?

 

[blackdenim2 1]

To be honest, if a woman is really into you she wouldn't be happy if you saw other women 2 days down the line.

Just remember that they are females. FEMALES. They want to secure themselves a Great Catch, you. They'll never be happy to share you ever. What they want is irrelevant to you, as they're there for your enjoyment, not to tell you how it's going to be. You are your own man. If you want a relationship, go for it. If you want to spin plates, go for it.

On a side note, you can only keep a plate spinning for so long. Be prepared to loose her and find another one.

Where are you from?

 

[Partizan]

Is this American thing?
I'm just wondering how you guys operate with women
I've been seeing a bird for four month now. She wants relationship. I've told her to wait & give us time. I'm meeting another woman tonight, but I'm not gonna tell my bird this as she wouldn't be happy.

I don't think most birds would be happy if you were still seeing other birds four months down the line?

I've run into this issue several times now. The way I see it, until me and the "bird" agree to an exclusive relationship, I'm free to see whoever I want. I am under no obligation to tell the bird any details about who else I'm seeing. If she doesn't like it, she can walk.

When she pushes me for a relationship, I tell her (in friendly terms) that I'm not ready. If she doesn't like it, she can walk. If she starts acting serious and butthurt about it for too long, then I walk.

Basically, I do whatever I want.

 

[Rainman4707]

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Two good posts

Yeah Partizan, i'll just do what I want. Thanks for your input as it helped. The reason for this thread was just to et some info on how guys spin.