"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you guys feel when plates or ex-gfs move on lower quality dudes?

There is this plate for example i had last March ,fcked her like 3 times and after me she's with a guy skinnier,shorter and atleast 2 points less thanwhere i am in the 10 scale .

I know you will say that's only what a beta male would do but it concerns me on why when a chick has been with the best guy she has ever been in her whole life , after you dump her , she comes together with a lower one instead for onel at least in the same level?

One of the reasons i never had many gfs is that i have not found one better or at least the same as the last one to upgrade.

And for those that don't know, a plate is different than a gf.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you guys feel when plates or ex-gfs move on lower quality dudes?

There is this plate for example i had last March ,fcked her like 3 times and after me she's with a guy skinnier,shorter and atleast 2 points less thanwhere i am in the 10 scale .

I know you will say that's only what a beta male would do but it concerns me on why when a chick has been with the best guy she has ever been in her whole life , after you dump her , she comes together with a lower one instead for onel at least in the same level?

One of the reasons i never had many gfs is that i have not found one better or at least the same as the last one to upgrade.

And for those that don't know, a plate is different than a gf.
Someone that you were with last March???!!!!

How would you know? Why would you care?

If I'm no longer fvcking her she's dead to me. At the bottom of the sea.

I have zero idea what any ex plate is doing or who she's fvcking.

Could that be the beauty of not using Friendface........
 

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Someone that you were with last March???!!!!

How would you know? Why would you care?

If I'm no longer fvcking her she's dead to me. At the bottom of the sea.

I have zero idea what any ex plate is doing or who she's fvcking.

Could that be the beauty of not using Friendface........
I live in a small city , information travels faster than light and the possibility to meet old plates is higher than usual.
 

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Honestly I don't care, they're out of my life, what they do is insignificant to me. What appears as lower quality to you may be higher quality to her/them (although your ego may fight this idea). Everyone doesn't see things the way you do (your ego may fight this one too), no matter how objective you believe it to be.
 

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I just think: Their loss.

Those who have no continued with me have lost out, whether they are plates or exs

Your life continues and your success grows, you have little time for the past. They are you past.

As a DJ, it is our present and future that defines us, not our past.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just think: Their loss.

Those who have no continued with me have lost out, whether they are plates or exs

Your life continues and your success grows, you have little time for the past. They are you past.

As a DJ, it is our present and future that defines us, not our past.
This is what i also think. I'm always the one that dumped them for something better.

I was just wondering why is like that though. Lack of options? Desperation? Low standards?
If one of these things is true then it has also some connection with you.

I know women don't always go with logic but come on ,there should be at least some of it in there.
 

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I don't care if women I'm seeing now sleep with other dudes, why would I care if they do this after I stop seeing them?

You really need to get to a place where you do not care what women do, otherwise you'll be a very unhappy person. There is no logic or reason to how women behave in relationships other than they are always trying to get their needs met and ALWAY will try to play emotional mind games with you to keep you interested, or to push you away if they don't like you.

All you need to know about why she's with this new dude is that at some level, RIGHT NOW, he is meeting her needs... what needs those might be is not really important, because this too will change.
 

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How do you guys feel when plates or ex-gfs move on lower quality dudes?
26) When a Ho Leaves Your Ass, Don’t Try to Figure It Out

All women are fickle. Hos are no different. Women function on 99.9% emotions. B*tches leave for the dumbest reasons, or no reason at all. Least of all the reasons you think it is. And I’ll tell you something else, if you know why she left, you weren’t pimping. If a real pimp spots a problem, he’s obligated to solve it. That’s why when a ho leaves, you don’t supposed to know why.-Rosebudd Bitterdose, Rosebudd 27 Rules of Pimpin'

There is this plate for example, I had last March. I f*cked her like 3 times, and after me she's with a guy skinnier,shorter and at least 2 points less than where i am in the 10 scale.
You know that you're worrying about some gay ass bullsh*t, right?

I know you will say that's only what a beta male would do, but it concerns me when a chick has been with the best guy she has ever been in her whole life, after you dump her, she comes together with a lower one, instead for one at least in the same level.
That's NSX-R saying that you're the best guy she's ever been with. How are you quantifying that statement, but anyway, you should take Payroll's philosophy on the subject. Go to 9:47-10:34 of the clip.
 

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26) When a Ho Leaves Your Ass, Don’t Try to Figure It Out

All women are fickle. Hos are no different. Women function on 99.9% emotions. B*tches leave for the dumbest reasons, or no reason at all. Least of all the reasons you think it is. And I’ll tell you something else, if you know why she left, you weren’t pimping. If a real pimp spots a problem, he’s obligated to solve it. That’s why when a ho leaves, you don’t supposed to know why.-Rosebudd Bitterdose, Rosebudd 27 Rules of Pimpin'



You know that you're worrying about some gay ass bullsh*t, right?



That's NSX-R saying that you're the best guy she's ever been with. How are you quantifying that statement? Anyway, you should take Payroll's philosophy on the subject. Go to 9:47-10:34 of the clip.
 

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Maybe he's hungvlike a horse. Maybe he's rich as ****. Maybe she's using him. Ther point is you CANNOT know, and shouldn't care.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She thinks she's doing better. You can do better too. If you're not f**king, don't hang around unless you want to be an orbiter. She moved on, you should too. You can do better anyway.

Case closed.
 

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Maybe he's hungvlike a horse. Maybe he's rich as ****. Maybe she's using him. Ther point is you CANNOT know, and shouldn't care.
Maybe he treats her better. People around here think that would be like some space alien $hit.
 
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