Plate wont blów me

[Juanto]

I´ve been seeing this girl for a month and had sex with her 3/4 times, however she has twice rejected my wishes of her giving me oral sex. I´m confortable doing it to her as it also excites me, but how should I approach this? Obviously I want it for the sheer pleasure of it but also to feel that she also wants to please me and that this is not a one way direction thing.

She is only a plate at this stage and I havent got any sort of fixation on her, but are there girls out there that would only give head if they are "girlfriends"?!

 

[oOh Nasty]

She's not that into you. Bet you she'd give head to someone she just met if he was alpha enough.

 

[CMNILS87]

She's not that into you. Bet you she'd give head to someone she just met if he was alpha enough.

You ever had a girl so hot for you, she can't wait to get ahold of your member and put it in her mouth??? That's literally Amy women that's tingle crazy for you. Sounds like she's giving maintenance sex and that's it till she finds better

 

[Juanto]

Yes. They're called manipulators.

She never implied this, it was more of a question from me only. But I get what you mean

 

[oOh Nasty]

OP.

Stop eating her out. And when it's time for you to bust your load, get up, grab her hair, and then stick it in her face. She'll probably start giving you what you want after that. If not, then just next her.

 

[BreezyB84]

What is a plate?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

What is a plate?

There are plates and prospects. Plates are woman you are banging. Just because you are have sex doesn't mean you have to immediately stop seeing other broads. Spinning plates = rotation of women.

Check out the DJ Bible, plenty to read there.

 

[foreverAFC]

some women just dont enjoy doing that

 

[marmel75]

Some chicks legitimately don't like doing it...might be the case, might not...Chances are you'll never find out...

Don't make a big deal out of it and just keep banging her...

 

[KingBeef]

Remember, she's just a plate. If it bothers you then look for a girl who will "accommodate" you, pretty simple. You always have options...

 

[El Payaso]

Nothing I despise more than a girl that doesn't give bl0wjobs.

 

[Juanto]

Some chicks legitimately don't like doing it...might be the case, might not...Chances are you'll never find out...

Don't make a big deal out of it and just keep banging her...

Openly comunicating with her about it and asking what is the problem may help?

 

[Jetleg]

First you need to f*ck with her brain. Play with her (but no oral), then, before she c*ms just stop.

She will ask why, then tell her she has not earned it yet.

Then take a pillow and throw it on the floor "get on your knees and open your mouth"

Thank me later.

 

[GS750]

You need to find a chick that not only will do it, but will enjoy doing it. This chick doesn't care if she's pleasing you or not. As stated above, she's likely fvcking you because she's bored. Use her the same way.

 

[The Duke]

She isn't into you enough and/or doesn't trust you and likely senses she is just a plate!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She isn't into you enough and/or doesn't trust you and likely senses she is just a plate!

Or maybe she doesn't suck anyone who isn't her "man". Or maybe she doesn't suck, and uses guys for d1ck.

 

[Juanto]

She is also quite inexperienced sexually and very very tight, could it be she Is just rubbish In bed?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She is also quite inexperienced sexually and very very tight, could it be she Is just rubbish In bed?

Could mean is simply inexperienced. She may even think giving head is "nasty" or "gross". You can help get her experienced.

 

[Juanto]

Update on this. So I talked about this issue with her, and made her see that I was starting to feel she was just being selfish by not reciprocating (or even trying) oral sex to me. She agreed, and asked me how important was it to me. I said of course its important to me, it feels good for you too right?

So, next sessions she did make an effort and engaged in said action, albeit she is still needing alot of coaching....

Now, as I mentioned before, she is very inexperienced in bed (from my experiences comparing to other girls) and really doesnt do or move alot. This is clearly something not positive for me. The good part, is that she is quite submissive and will comply to almost anything I tell her to do.

But here comes the part that probably will surprise the fellow DJ´s: she is 38! How often is a 38 year old like this?

So my question to the experienced DJs here, is this something you would tolerate going forward? Mind you, she is only a plate, nothing more.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Update on this. So I talked about this issue with her, and made her see that I was starting to feel she was just being selfish by not reciprocating (or even trying) oral sex to me. She agreed, and asked me how important was it to me. I said of course its important to me, it feels good for you too right?

So, next sessions she did make an effort and engaged in said action, albeit she is still needing alot of coaching....

Now, as I mentioned before, she is very inexperienced in bed (from my experiences comparing to other girls) and really doesnt do or move alot. This is clearly something not positive for me. The good part, is that she is quite submissive and will comply to almost anything I tell her to do.

But here comes the part that probably will surprise the fellow DJ´s: she is 38! How often is a 38 year old like this?

So my question to the experienced DJs here, is this something you would tolerate going forward? Mind you, she is only a plate, nothing more.

If you dont' want her send her to me. I'd love a lady to COMPLY to the way I like things done. A lot of them have been with so many c0cks they have "power" in their particular move and it might not work on you. You know they get worked into a groove and a way of doing it and you can no longer suggest...