"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So I've been dating two girls. Girl A is much more attractive and I have more chemistry with. Girl B... I just went out with last night, she's not as much fun to hook up with and not as attractive. I don't have Oneitis but I KNOW that Girl A compared to other girls is of a higher quality and fits my type almost perfectly... which makes her value higher than most.

My question is this.... If I have been dating Girl A for several months, and I know she is quality based on what she has shown me... Strategically what is the best course of action, should I

1. Keep dating more girls (she is obviously attracted to the fact that she knows i am dating more girls than just her, currently only one other one but still a plus for me in that regard)

2. Make her my GF (she already asked me and I basically told her i wanted to be non exclusive and i am still dating her)


I already have a feeling most people are going to say date more girls. She likes me alot, thats obvious at this point. Could i potentially stay casual with her indefinitely? or do girls get fed up after a certain point?

In addition... Girl A is a virgin and inexperienced sexually. What is the best way to handle virgins in the bedroom concerning "teaching" them things if you catch my drift. Thanks in advance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you haven't had sex with the girl A that's why she asks for a relationship! Cause she wants to have sex but it would be too difficult for her to do it with a man not really belonging to her (if you know what I mean, belong) I would certainly suggest you to stick up with the girl A! From your own post you can understand that you want that girl! The other one is probably for boosting your ego which ain't bad! But ego is bigger than what you really want?!?
 
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sky77 said:
My question is this.... If I have been dating Girl A for several months, and I know she is quality based on what she has shown me... Strategically what is the best course of action, should I..
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Do you want to date her or not? Stop thinking of it as a "you against them" and get her onto your "we" side if you want too date her.
 
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Good responses by everyone in this thread. It sounds like your are having these questions because you are considering the option now of being in a relationship. If a relationship with girl A is what you want, go for it. You have experience to gain from whatever decision you make, there's no wrong choice here.
 
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