Plate Theory vs. LTR: How long should you wait?

[sky77]

So I've been dating two girls. Girl A is much more attractive and I have more chemistry with. Girl B... I just went out with last night, she's not as much fun to hook up with and not as attractive. I don't have Oneitis but I KNOW that Girl A compared to other girls is of a higher quality and fits my type almost perfectly... which makes her value higher than most.

My question is this.... If I have been dating Girl A for several months, and I know she is quality based on what she has shown me... Strategically what is the best course of action, should I

1. Keep dating more girls (she is obviously attracted to the fact that she knows i am dating more girls than just her, currently only one other one but still a plus for me in that regard)

2. Make her my GF (she already asked me and I basically told her i wanted to be non exclusive and i am still dating her)


I already have a feeling most people are going to say date more girls. She likes me alot, thats obvious at this point. Could i potentially stay casual with her indefinitely? or do girls get fed up after a certain point?

In addition... Girl A is a virgin and inexperienced sexually. What is the best way to handle virgins in the bedroom concerning "teaching" them things if you catch my drift. Thanks in advance.

 

[DonJuanit0]

If you haven't had sex with the girl A that's why she asks for a relationship! Cause she wants to have sex but it would be too difficult for her to do it with a man not really belonging to her (if you know what I mean, belong) I would certainly suggest you to stick up with the girl A! From your own post you can understand that you want that girl! The other one is probably for boosting your ego which ain't bad! But ego is bigger than what you really want?!?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

My question is this.... If I have been dating Girl A for several months, and I know she is quality based on what she has shown me... Strategically what is the best course of action, should I..

Do you want to date her or not? Stop thinking of it as a "you against them" and get her onto your "we" side if you want too date her.

 

[BeyondCharm]

Good responses by everyone in this thread. It sounds like your are having these questions because you are considering the option now of being in a relationship. If a relationship with girl A is what you want, go for it. You have experience to gain from whatever decision you make, there's no wrong choice here.