"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Plate theory at work? Or coincidence?

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One of the hardest parts of game or whatever it's correct term is for me to grasp and accept is plate theory.
I'm describing plate theory as having several women in 'rotation'. I felt it was honourable and just to only focus on one woman at a time.
I even fooled myself that I wasn't built to juggle more than one woman at a time.

Just as I've read once you stop caring and start having fun and enjoying women and seeing them for who they are...you attract more women. I'm sure it doesn't hurt that I've been on the gym for about 2 years now and eating really well and am coming into my own professionally after years and years of stagnation and occasional regression.

There was a woman I went on a date years ago. It went well but I fumbled and really made a fool of myself. I was in full beta mode back then.
I cut all contact.

I reached out to her a few weeks ago while sending a message to my contact list inviting them to an event I was putting on. She was very cold via text and never showed up.

A few nights ago I was out with a plate who turns out to be pretty famous internationally in her profession. Ahead of us in the line was the sister of the woman from years ago.
She kept looking back at us and while seated kept staring and typing on her phone.
Today out the blue I get a text from the chick from years ago asking when is my next event.

Coincidence or is this what game is about?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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