Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
now get that cleaning done ... Or do I need too crack the whip mrs Ha! X"Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When you have plates...you don't worry about any one particular girl.Aesthetix29 said:She's 21 and I've had sex a few times with her but not for the last month as we haven't really seen each other but keep in contact via phone or text... I replied
" Good, glad you had fun
I think she's been a sleep not ignoring me... Can't figure out if we're just friends or more now ... Have I been friend zoned? The thing is when we were seeing each other her ex caught wind that we were seeing each other and went mad couldn't handle it ... So just been laying low... They've also got a 1 year old together it was her 1st birthday yesterday hence her feeling a bit ropey today. Don't know how too approach this, I know she's interested as she always keeps in touch and likes all my social media statuses etc... Is she waiting for me to make a move or what... I'm at a loss guys
Bad move.Aesthetix29 said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
