"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Plate spinners = boomerang daters?

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A lot of complaints I had heard from women is men who "boomerang" on them. Typically these guys ask for their # but take like months to call them or they ghost after a date or 2 and the woman is left thinking, "Okay, guess he's not interested" only to have him call her 6 months later. The latter is typically most frustrating and of course these women never return those 6 monthers or boomerang daters.

They are like "F-them' and they move on...they had their chance.

Do you think those boomerangers are following proper "plate spinning" protocol, or are just plain douche's in their technique? I'm sure they are under the impression that they are ALL that, too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I do this all the time. Could be there's other women I like more, could be work got busy, could be I switched jobs, could be wishy washy post breakup.
Excuses excuses. I think this is more popular with the Milliniels because women in their mid-30s and older don't put up with that crap.
 

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I think it's hilarious that you think women don't do it. Women in their mid 30s put up with a LOT more than an 20yr old btw.
Hey, I date women that don't do it. So I take it you only date women that, like yourself, do it as well, because the women that don't do it wouldn't men that do do it.
 
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