"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Plate spinners = boomerang daters?

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A lot of complaints I had heard from women is men who "boomerang" on them. Typically these guys ask for their # but take like months to call them or they ghost after a date or 2 and the woman is left thinking, "Okay, guess he's not interested" only to have him call her 6 months later. The latter is typically most frustrating and of course these women never return those 6 monthers or boomerang daters.

They are like "F-them' and they move on...they had their chance.

Do you think those boomerangers are following proper "plate spinning" protocol, or are just plain douche's in their technique? I'm sure they are under the impression that they are ALL that, too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I do this all the time. Could be there's other women I like more, could be work got busy, could be I switched jobs, could be wishy washy post breakup.
Excuses excuses. I think this is more popular with the Milliniels because women in their mid-30s and older don't put up with that crap.
 

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I think it's hilarious that you think women don't do it. Women in their mid 30s put up with a LOT more than an 20yr old btw.
Hey, I date women that don't do it. So I take it you only date women that, like yourself, do it as well, because the women that don't do it wouldn't men that do do it.
 
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