Plate sleeping with other guys

[Hyper2010]

Just a quick one

Would any of you guys consider still sleeping with a plate/option/girl if you knew she was banging other guys?

Obobviously, always use protection and dont risk catching anything, but would you still bang it?

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[Thorninmyside]

Personally, no. That would make me one of her options, not her one of mine. Having said that, if you're good in the sack maybe you could give her an incentive not to play with those other dongs.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

It sucks, but you can't be a hypocrite. If you're wanting her to be cool with you banging other women (thus the reason you've made her a "plate" and not your one option), you can't be all butt hurt if she's doing the same with other guys.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Harry makes a really good point. In terms of who has the upper hand, I guess you're both gonna think you're spinning each other, but like I said, if you can be better than those other guys, you might have her thinking of you when she's with them, so sharpen your bed game if you need to.

 

[rascal99v]

What the hell do you guys think a plate is? You fvck her when you can and you shouldn't give a sh1t about her after you are done.

Plates are pvssy on command, you fvck them when you want, until you fvck them again the next time. What she is doing after should be none of your concern. The only concern you should have is, how well she is riding your c0ck on that particular night.

That's why you always line up more plates than one. If you're so concerned about her fvcking other men, then maybe you should make her your girlfriend. LOL :crackup:

Plates are used for fvcking, nothing else, whoever else she fvcks in the meantime should be none of your concern.

Take my advice, you have more sex and will live a less stressful life.

1. At a very intuitive level, you understand that her wh0ring is wrong. You understand that you are part of her mission to destroy herself, almost like a drug dealer. You understand that she may very well feel like she has power over you and snickers behind your back, which is unnatural and bothers you at your core. Although my lust usually overcomes these uncomfortable thoughts, I still understand where you are coming from and feel very uncomfortable using damaged women for sex.

2. To some people, "plate" means "potential GF" not "wet hole". So of course people here are confused as to why you expect your plate to be somewhat classy.

There should be no confusion whatsoever, when you know your plate is actively fvcking several other men, then you know she is not a "potential girlfriend" that you should invest in. But these naive men do invest into them, and then they wonder why 8 months down the road they got cheated on. :crazy:

Fvck your plates and don't worry about anything else. Trying to gain an upper hand is ridiculous because it shouldn't even be that serious. :yes:

 

[Epimanes]

She's just a "plate" ... Why do you care?

 

[foreverAFC]

when she comes over and gives you a big kiss, do you ever taste something weird on her lips ?

 

[Turuwal]

Yes. If you tell her not to fvck other guys it will actually make it more likely because it projects insecurity, so why not just save yourself a bunch of stress and put it all on the table? My only concern is that she keeps it hidden and doesn't fvck some idiot who's gonna make a big deal out of it. Otherwise I would have to dump her to guard my reputation.

Oh and she should do everything with me in bed and make me dinner and treat me like a king. That way I know I am her primary plate (or perhaps only plate, not that it matters).

 

[skinnyguy]

So you want u turn a hore into a gf???

I feel bad for u

 

[asa_don]

What the hell do you guys think a plate is? You fvck her when you can and you shouldn't give a sh1t about her after you are done.

Plates are pvssy on command, you fvck them when you want, until you fvck them again the next time. What she is doing after should be none of your concern. The only concern you should have is, how well she is riding your c0ck on that particular night.

That's why you always line up more plates than one. If you're so concerned about her fvcking other men, then maybe you should make her your girlfriend. LOL :crackup:

Plates are used for fvcking, nothing else, whoever else she fvcks in the meantime should be none of your concern.

Take my advice, you have more sex and will live a less stressful life.





There should be no confusion whatsoever, when you know your plate is actively fvcking several other men, then you know she is not a "potential girlfriend" that you should invest in. But these naive men do invest into them, and then they wonder why 8 months down the road they got cheated on. :crazy:

Fvck your plates and don't worry about anything else. Trying to gain an upper hand is ridiculous because it shouldn't even be that serious. :yes:

agreed, rascal is spot on.

 

[Sofomore]

It all depends on what you want out of spinning plates. I spin plates to get laid, not to find a girlfriend.

If you are spinning plates to have sex you can't be upset when she is Fvcking other guys. If you are spinning plates for a gf, any plate that sleeps with other guys deserves to be nexted.

 

[Jaylan]

when she comes over and gives you a big kiss, do you ever taste something weird on her lips ?

Trolololol.

This made me laugh too hard on my couch.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I wouldn't. Call me a hypocrite but when two people are sleeping around with other people then it's more of a chance for an STD. A girl who is fun fvcking ain't worth sht anyway. Call it what you want but I like to sleep with multiple women and if I figure she is as well then I'll just cut her off. No harm done.

 

[Jaylan]

Ive said it time and time again, and so have rascal and others. Its 2014, and women are fvking. If you cant handle that reality, stop hooking up while single and go get a girlfriend. If youre not a man that can be sexually exclusive while doing the FWB thing, dont expect the woman to. Because if shes a woman you dont know well, she can easily lie to you and go get hers elsewhere.

And trust me, many women will if they feel youre not willing to honor your end of the bargain. Ive heard women outright say "if hes going to be getting his, Im going to get mine too". So if you want to screw multiple plates, usually the woman will bail or spin her own plates (sometimes secretively). Its a very rare woman thats sleeping with one man, yet being ok that hes screwing other women.

I see 3 different ways of spinning plates;

1. Agreeing that both parties are allowed to sleep with who they want. If a man is spinning plates this way, hes just getting his sex, and not giving a fvk what the women are doing when hes not around. This man understands that the sex is for fun, and he doesnt stupidly get caught up judging casual hookups with the same standards he judges potential girlfriends.

Thats the problem with many men. Many judge their casual sex options the same way they would a potential girlfriend. Ive learned a while ago that this was a fool's practice. They are there for fun. And if you are trying to have fun, you are not wasting your time thinking about other hypocritical bs.

2. Agreeing to an exclusive FWB arrangement. This is definitely better for those trying to be smart about their health, smart about pregnancy, but still keep their single status. This is what I usually do. I dont have time to worry about a girl screwing some other dude, and I dont want to have to always worry about my health.

Usually a girl and I will agree that we only sleep with each other. And that if we meet someone else we want to pursue, we will let each other know. Sure a chick can lie and still go and smash another dude. But what I have seen is that usually the women who agree to sexual exclusivity, tend to like the guy or end up liking him eventually. And other times the dude falls for the chick first.

This presents its own problem, despite limiting the STD risk. All that said, in my experience, the women who are open to sexual exclusivity are higher quality women than the chicks who are ok sleeping with a man who sleeps around. And sexually exclusive women are loads higher quality than women who actively sleep with multiple men themselves.

3. Spinning plates on the search for a committed relationship. Some people do this, and it usually means going on dates, talking to other men/women, and kissing who you want, but it stops before any sexual contact. Not many people have the will power to not at least sleep with one of their options (as in situation #2 above).

However, this is usually the best way to go about protecting ones health and finding a quality woman.

I wouldn't. Call me a hypocrite but when two people are sleeping around with other people then it's more of a chance for an STD. A girl who is fun fvcking ain't worth sht anyway. Call it what you want but I like to sleep with multiple women and if I figure she is as well then I'll just cut her off. No harm done.

And thats the thing. The women you sleep with likely are sleeping with other men. Women are not dumb and they can be very perceptive. The type of woman who wants sexual exclusivity generally wont put up with a dude whos sleeping around. Usually the kind of girls who are ok with a man sleeping around, are also sleeping around themselves.

So if youre ok with being a hypocrite, cool. But you already have a great risk of STD by sleeping with multiple women anyways. Its naive to think the risk is so much less just because you want to assume every single one of those women is willfully sleeping only with you. Thats how dudes get caught up. And thats how diseases get spread.

 

[Night-hawk]

For me, a girl is either potential gf or not. I'm picky, and rare I meet a girls who keep my interest. Other than that she is proving herself to me for more.