"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Plate reset, lets restart fresh

Who Dares Win

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Not sure if it ever happened to any of you but I find myself in a moment where all the plate Im spinning are leading nowhere, all of them more or the less reply to calls and texts
but make it hard to meet or organize anything.

This situation doesn,t grant me any benefit, in fact its pissing me off and their continouous rejection could be hurting my self-confidence, therefore I decided to go on a complete reset.

I will delete all their numbers from next week and slowly getting rid of them on facebook too, I simply dont need them in my life for said reasons.
I'll be saving only one of them who I successfully turned into a fvck buddy, for the rest I'll be looking for new plates totally starting from next weekend.

I still dont know if its worth to answer them in case some of them will try to contact me again, probably they would do that just to confirm themselves that they
still can get me and turn uninsterested once their ego is satisfied.

I will let you know how it works and how I feel in case someone will find himself in the same situation and wants to consider this reset for himself.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eternal_water

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Its a very weird digital world we live in. Apart from 2 *****es I couldn't stand I would never dream of deleting facebook friends as the shorter your list the less online social proof you have. And I ""only"" have 110.

Silly world.
 

WORKEROUTER

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Starting fresh is a great idea sometimes. Gets you out of the comfort zone and into the abundance mindsight vs. the scarcity mindsight.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Good plan playboy, I've done this so many times over the past year. Only difference is that I've smashed these chicks. Once I get bored with everything I like to delete all their numbers and just ignore them. This is the very reason a lot of girls say I'm a "d1ck" but I really don't care. Keep your head up and keep campaigning Who Dares Win! If one girl ain't co-operative then you go to the next one playa.
 
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