"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Plate reset, lets restart fresh

Who Dares Win

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Not sure if it ever happened to any of you but I find myself in a moment where all the plate Im spinning are leading nowhere, all of them more or the less reply to calls and texts
but make it hard to meet or organize anything.

This situation doesn,t grant me any benefit, in fact its pissing me off and their continouous rejection could be hurting my self-confidence, therefore I decided to go on a complete reset.

I will delete all their numbers from next week and slowly getting rid of them on facebook too, I simply dont need them in my life for said reasons.
I'll be saving only one of them who I successfully turned into a fvck buddy, for the rest I'll be looking for new plates totally starting from next weekend.

I still dont know if its worth to answer them in case some of them will try to contact me again, probably they would do that just to confirm themselves that they
still can get me and turn uninsterested once their ego is satisfied.

I will let you know how it works and how I feel in case someone will find himself in the same situation and wants to consider this reset for himself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eternal_water

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Its a very weird digital world we live in. Apart from 2 *****es I couldn't stand I would never dream of deleting facebook friends as the shorter your list the less online social proof you have. And I ""only"" have 110.

Silly world.
 

WORKEROUTER

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Starting fresh is a great idea sometimes. Gets you out of the comfort zone and into the abundance mindsight vs. the scarcity mindsight.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Good plan playboy, I've done this so many times over the past year. Only difference is that I've smashed these chicks. Once I get bored with everything I like to delete all their numbers and just ignore them. This is the very reason a lot of girls say I'm a "d1ck" but I really don't care. Keep your head up and keep campaigning Who Dares Win! If one girl ain't co-operative then you go to the next one playa.
 
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