"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Plate friends with ex-plate

TheMonkeyKing

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So plate 1 is friends with plate 2 (nothing ever really happened with plate 2, other than a drunken fumble).

Plate 1 stays in my bed after a night out and claims my previous with plate 2 prevents her from doing anything. Nothing happens. She tells me 'this never happened (her staying), right'.

Then plate 1 and 2 go on holiday to Mexico.

I go round to plate 1's flat last Friday with beers, we stay up till like two, really flirty, real tipsy, I stay in her bed, I make the move, but again nothing happens, though no mention of plate 2.

More flirting in the morning and again the next time I see her. Plate 1 is getting warmer.

Lack of femme loyalty aside, what would the SS audience do??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Willard

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Keep working on plate 1, nothing really happened with plate 2. I had the same thing happen, except for me plate 1 didn't care about plate 2's feeling's. plate 1 ended up being my gf and plate 2 learned to deal with it, I worked with plate 2 and it was ackward for a little while.
 

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Espi said:
I have no loyalty amidst my plates. ZERO.

And, chances are, the females also have ZERO loyalty amongst themselves.

The few times I've fvucked the friend of a plate, both women never knew. One of them said, "Don't say anything to _____ about this OK?"

Fine with me. Whatever.

Let THEM figure it out.
^Great advice. You stay above the petty drama squabbling, let the women do that.
 

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Yeah nice one lads. Not bothered about the loyalty thing. Only mentioned it as a demo of woman think.

Will carry on with plate 1. But seems like a slow burner. She's in love with a 50yr old married man with a kid.... hashtag-hypergamy-doesn't-mind!
 

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Bro, if you have slept in the same bed with her twice without getting your d!ck wet than I think you need to move on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheMonkeyKing

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MOTU said:
Bro, if you have slept in the same bed with her twice without getting your d!ck wet than I think you need to move on.
Another good point well made. Not overly attracted to this one anyway. She's just quite a laugh and has an amazing face and ass, plus reckon she's quite dirty.

Anyway, onward and upward.
 
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