"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Plate friends with ex-plate

TheMonkeyKing

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So plate 1 is friends with plate 2 (nothing ever really happened with plate 2, other than a drunken fumble).

Plate 1 stays in my bed after a night out and claims my previous with plate 2 prevents her from doing anything. Nothing happens. She tells me 'this never happened (her staying), right'.

Then plate 1 and 2 go on holiday to Mexico.

I go round to plate 1's flat last Friday with beers, we stay up till like two, really flirty, real tipsy, I stay in her bed, I make the move, but again nothing happens, though no mention of plate 2.

More flirting in the morning and again the next time I see her. Plate 1 is getting warmer.

Lack of femme loyalty aside, what would the SS audience do??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Willard

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Keep working on plate 1, nothing really happened with plate 2. I had the same thing happen, except for me plate 1 didn't care about plate 2's feeling's. plate 1 ended up being my gf and plate 2 learned to deal with it, I worked with plate 2 and it was ackward for a little while.
 

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Espi said:
I have no loyalty amidst my plates. ZERO.

And, chances are, the females also have ZERO loyalty amongst themselves.

The few times I've fvucked the friend of a plate, both women never knew. One of them said, "Don't say anything to _____ about this OK?"

Fine with me. Whatever.

Let THEM figure it out.
^Great advice. You stay above the petty drama squabbling, let the women do that.
 

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Yeah nice one lads. Not bothered about the loyalty thing. Only mentioned it as a demo of woman think.

Will carry on with plate 1. But seems like a slow burner. She's in love with a 50yr old married man with a kid.... hashtag-hypergamy-doesn't-mind!
 

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Bro, if you have slept in the same bed with her twice without getting your d!ck wet than I think you need to move on.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheMonkeyKing

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MOTU said:
Bro, if you have slept in the same bed with her twice without getting your d!ck wet than I think you need to move on.
Another good point well made. Not overly attracted to this one anyway. She's just quite a laugh and has an amazing face and ass, plus reckon she's quite dirty.

Anyway, onward and upward.
 
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