"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Plate cancelled plans last minute but asks to postpone them for following day

Divorced w 3

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Good thread, if not unfortunate to read. Wish you the best.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I’ve been seeing this one girl since august of last year. She recently went on a 2 month vacation for the holidays since November and we saw each other again for the first time in 2 months last Friday. Since Friday, we’ve been seeing each other every day. Went out Friday night, Saturday night she came over and slept over, Monday dinner, Tuesday went out dancing and slept over. We’ve been super into each other, passionate make out sessions everywhere we go, passionate sex all of it.

This Wednesday she had plans to hang out with her gf and then Thursday we were going to take our dogs to the park and watch a movie together. However Thursday morning I get a text that she is super tired and if we can move the plans for the following day. Even though she offered another date to continue with the plans, it still caught me by surprise as to the spontaneous cancellation.

she has been going out all week since Friday and Tuesday we slept 4 hours due to having s3x until 4 am. So she could genuinely be tired but the “believe women’s actions and not her words” is creeping up on me.

I responded with, “no worries, get some rest so that we can continue with more adventures”

Also, I think it’s important to share that the reason why we’ve been seeing each other so much is becaause she has a work trip in February for several weeks until she gets back.

how do you guys handle these spontaneous cancellations/reschedule from girls ? Specially when she’s showing super high signs of attraction.
Dude she canceled one date after spending an exorbit amount of time with you. Relax man. Do you have other plates spinning? My advice is if she cancels the date your job is to not give a f*ck.
 
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