Planning

[Sneevox]

After reading a few threads on here, I have noticed something a large amount of you young Don Juans do.

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You plan. You plan for success, you plan for pick ups, you plan for love, and you plan your happiness.

Is it possible to plan such a thing? Happiness? Is happiness a plan, or is it simply a lifestyle?

Could you say such a thing about success, love, manliness, and being a Don Juan?

Of course!

Don Juans do not need to plan such things! They simply know how to live out the lifestyle.

When a Don Juan wants to make a comeback, he does not plan it. He messages that chicky that he wanted to get back with after he fvcked up the relationship before and he gets back with her using all that he has learned.
He does not sit around and think about what he'll say! He does what works.

He does what he learned works!

A Don Juan takes the risks he needs to take so that he can learn from all of his mistakes and, rather than plan what he is going to do, know what he will do when the time arises.

Don't sit around and plan your future! If you're planning for something to happen, that means that it hasn't already happened!

Planning means that there is a chance for FAILURE when things do not go according to plan (not that failing is a bad thing, but planning leaves you stagnant once you fail.)

As Pook and many other great minds stated, "As you think, you shall become."

This means that you need to know of your success before it happens.

Delve into those situations knowing that you are going to succeed before it even happens!

As many would say, A Don Juan does not need to plan because he already knows what to do in every situation.

Namaste.

 

[AlexLefty]

I'll elaborate in the future.

 

[sid_company33]

Thanks for elaborating on the topic, I'm really starting to grasp the ways of the Don Juan

 

[alxrose04]

I agree on so many levels. Simply put, Don Juan is a belief that good things will happen to you and if something you want doesn't happen, you have to know that it hasn't happened because something BETTER is going to happen.

 

[LearningSlowly]

I understand what you're trying to say, but Im sorry to admit that I didn't find much value in this post.

Your intended message comes down to one word: ACT

Don't think, don't masturbate, don't hesitate, just ACT.

Unfortunately, your post seems to say, "The Don Juan doesn't plan, because he is a Don Juan, so everything he does is the right thing!"
This is not always true. We often make mistakes that could have been avoided if we had been truly aware.

You seem to say, "The Don Juan has already learned from all his mistakes, so now he understands every situation!"
Well, this is also not true. And it isn't true because every situation we encounter is completely new. There are no repeats. Sure, sometimes situations resemble ones we have encountered in the past, and we can take our lessons from those, but inevitably a Don Juan will encounter something he has never seen, and have to base his decisions on his morals and inner principles.

I get your point. And I agree with the idea. But the fact is, Don Juans aren't superheroes, they're men. And while they tend to be strong, intelligent, genuine men, they are still very human. And unnecessary planning, and self-consciousness, and heartbreak and pain are all part of being human. We can't avoid that, we just need to live with it, and learn from it.

 

[Sneevox]

Unfortunately, your post seems to say, "The Don Juan doesn't plan, because he is a Don Juan, so everything he does is the right thing!"

No, more like "Don Juans do not plan because they always know what to do/are ready to learn what to do next time."

 

[Jack Wealthy]

I agree with learning. Learning and planning saves time and effort, just doing **** willy nilly because you're a DJ is dumb for me. School isn't going to think I'm a solid student cos I fingerbang a bunch of girls at random, my ability to study consistenly and show up puncttually will.