Planning in proposing after 1 week of being together, im only 19!

[squirrels]

Give it TWO MONTHS, at least.

Right now you're infatuated. Seriously, if you get married now, you'll essentially be marrying someone you know NOTHING about romantically. She DOES have flaws...and until you see them and decide you can live with them, marriage is a BAD idea.

Also, you may be able to see this woman as being your WIFE, but can you see her being the MOTHER of your CHILDREN?? Marriage isn't about love...it's about family. If you marry for love, you are going to regret it.

 

[Paintballguy]

Your a moron if you get married after knowing someone for a week.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Just tell me what's the difference in being married or not (with this girl)?

Aren't you "with" her anyway? So?

That desperation impress me...

Anyway go ahead and do what you wanna do!

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by jakethasnake
DO IT... I want to see you fvck it up and become an example for everyone. Be a martr for sosuave, please....

Bfl has been an example of what not to do for quite some time now.

Bfl, really, you should give it more time. A week is too soon. Like, ten days might be more reasonable.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Oh, and BFL... if you DO get married, please promise me one thing.

Whatever you do, please don't breed.

 

[wezzy]

Take it from someone that did something simular.

I knew my ex a lot longer then a week, but we got married at 19. Had 2 kids, lived together for almost 20 years. But the fire went out within 2 years of our marriage. I worked 2 jobs, and did college at night.

That makes 18 years of hell!!!! I do mean HELL. Stayed together for the kids, and I never once cheated on her, I was too busy working and going to school. Completely lost my game, completely lost all of my friends (Who wants to hang with a losser, miserable, always negative guy). A month after I left, I found out that she has had several boyfriends along the way, and a TL for the last 2 years. F**Ked me up, on top of already being F up.

Now I pay, I pay, I pay...both in College and an ex that can't hold a job, but I'm FREE and I got my game back, thanks to sosauve, and a couple of very good friends.

 

[bfl]

after showing him all the replies this is what he said " they are not in my sitution, they dont know how this really is" so i give up on this man, i tried to save his life but he wont listen to me or yall for that matter.


Oh and its funny how ever since the first day i joined this board giovanni has been hating me, even on this thread when i clearly stated that i will never be in a MARRIAGE situation period. its all good though.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by bfl
Actually its not me the one that wants to get married to this chick, oh HELLL NAWW not bfl, but my friend,

Please, not the old "I have a friend..." line - nobody believes it. Oh, and stop referring to yourself in the third person. It's unnerving.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by bfl
Oh and its funny how ever since the first day i joined this board giovanni has been hating me, even on this thread when i clearly stated that i will never be in a MARRIAGE situation period. its all good though.

Hahaha... I don't hate you. You're good entertainment, in addition to serving as a warning to others.

 

[bfl]

^^thats better

 

[bfl]

Originally posted by diablo
Please, not the old "I have a friend..." line - nobody believes it. Oh, and stop referring to yourself in the third person. It's unnerving.

well just like giovani said.....i knew that i was gonna get way more flaming and heavier responses if i said it was me bfl knowing my past, than if i said it was some othe person, but trust me when i say that marriage for me is not an option anytime soon.

 

[dietzcoi]

Wezzy

Welcome, I am in the same boat you are and believe me, I feel and have felt your pain....

Bonhomme: Now we have a new term, DHC: DIe-hard chump. Great, I love it!!

I also love the fact that even the borderline AFCs agree that a one-week marriage is BAD BAD BAD...

Dietzcoi