Planning an overseas ascension junket

[20Humble5050]

I re-checked your alias and didn't realise you are 22 years. I'm 46 years old. You still have hope not to end up like me. So go out there and approach!

APPROACH #39: Unless you really want to hear the field report I will keep it concise by saying that I got what I think is the girl's number, as well as a "yes" to a request to meet up at a bar near her house tomorrow night. What should I do in the mean time in terms of calling or texting? She said she'd be in touch but my number isn't in her phone yet. If she actually shows up I plan to ask to come back to her apartment with her afterwards for a "nightcap".

 

[corrector]

APPROACH #39: Unless you really want to hear the field report I will keep it concise by saying that I got what I think is the girl's number, as well as a "yes" to a request to meet up at a bar near her house tomorrow night. What should I do in the mean time in terms of calling or texting? She said she'd be in touch but my number isn't in her phone yet. If she actually shows up I plan to ask to come back to her apartment with her afterwards for a "nightcap".

@BackInTheGame78 is good with that type of game.

 

[20Humble5050]

@BackInTheGame78 is good with that type of game.

But do you have any advice off-hand? I do not care about trying to flirt over text and just want to send her something to get my number into her phone that doesn’t come off as needy.

 

[20Humble5050]

@BackInTheGame78 is good with that type of game.

Alright, so when I met her first she informed me that there was a pre-season event for a sports club I was a member of last year at my college tomorrow and she would be there. I sent her a simple text message to confirm the location at 10PM and she didn’t respond. There’s a small chance that she genuinely went to bed early, but as far as I’m concerned she’s missed her chance with me by ignoring that text. Interestingly, when she was hanging out with me, in the middle of our conversation, she asked if I could drive her home, and the other guys there were like “Just say yes!”. Since she wasn’t being particularly frisky with me I thought there was no chance that she’d actually invite me inside, so I declined because I wasn’t ready to leave yet myself and was not about to simp for her by being her free taxi driver. I really hope I read that correctly and didn’t miss out on a fast lay. Anyway, I will be attending the event tomorrow regardless and plan to meet her there, escalate some more with her and maybe change the bar date tonight into an instadate if I can, assuming she’s there. But more importantly this experience boosted my confidence by a metric boatload and made me so damn eager to run game on other thots so I could try again without repeating the mistakes, so as long as I find suitable approachmaxxing targets, this original one better be on the ball if she wants to compete.

 

[20Humble5050]

@BackInTheGame78 is good with that type of game.

Update: After I almost missed practice due to her failing to clarify the location, the girl finally replied saying that she had “no cell service” (for an entire night at home and half a day?) and that she had gotten “tipsy” yesterday when I met her and actually had a boyfriend. Considering she seemed plenty coherent enough to remember such a key detail, I suspect she made up her boyfriend as an excuse after reading my message which seemed a bit cross in tone. Either that, or she really did have a boyfriend, in which case why the hell do girls do this? I know modern foids are attention *****s, but you’d think they’d stop lapping it up and drop the boyfriend bomb when push came to shove - instead I’ve now had three girls that apparently agreed to dates only to reveal later over text that they had a boyfriend.

 

[20Humble5050]

Just travel cheaply, meet people and have fun. Forget about game. it's a useless diversion.



Anyplace that attracts tourists on a budget.



Yes, you are.

You sound a dude that is terrified to leave his house unless he has a foolproof, step by step guaranteed plan that is backed by tons of field reports online.

There is no "hostel" game.

There are no "easy" hostel chicks.

There are just people having fun in a relaxed environment, meeting other people and hooking up.

Stayin in U.S. hostel is cheaper and higher probability that going to Europe. That is all.

Go without a plan and have fun. That is all.

Well, two years later I am finally doing exactly this in Thailand! I will be staying several nights in party hostels and three in nicer resorts. I can only hope that what you say about adventurous girls holds true.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Well, two years later I am finally doing exactly this in Thailand! I will be staying several nights in party hostels and three in nicer resorts. I can only hope that what you say about adventurous girls holds true.

In THAT neck of the woods, hope also that that any dames you have eyes for really were girls at birth... Thailand anticipated the direction much of The Post-Industrial West would head in

 

[20Humble5050]

In THAT neck of the woods, hope also that that any dames you have eyes for really were girls at birth... Thailand anticipated the direction much of The Post-Industrial West would head in

Not an issue when I am going after horny backpackers; I assume any local Thai girls - real or otherwise - in tourist-heavy areas will be very upfront that they are not interested in a fling without payment. Also, I know that was just an aside but the ladyboys in Thailand can't really be seen as a dress rehearsal of the western Cultural Marxism plague; they are almost all what would be considered "homosexual transsexuals" in the West, i.e. those who are only attracted to men and suffer from some degree of clinical sexual dysphoria. Thailand doesn't have the same social dynamics that led to the "incel-to-trans pipeline" and the large number of straight men failing to pass as women who get off on boundary-pushing, uproar-creating behavior and were fed the delusion that transitioning was a shortcut to ascending with a lesbian woman. Secondly... by all accounts there are enough men actually into that that they don't have to trick people to make ends meet!

 

[MatureDJ]

I am a 22-year-old kissless dateless virgin college student living in the USA and have just about reached the end of my rope with the total lack of success I have had. Because of this, I have decided that if I am still a virgin by summer break next year, I am going to take a week's holiday to anywhere else in the world with the goal of blowing off steam and ideally having a one-night-stand, or at least a makeout, with a local girl or fellow tourist, and an emphasis on nightgame. I don't consider myself attractive, but I think I am decent looking enough to have potential virtually everywhere in the world apart from the "Incel Hell regions" (which is to say Scandinavia, the USA, Australia, Canada and Japan), especially if I meet my weight loss goal, and because I prefer white girls I would like to go somewhere in Europe rather than the lower-hanging fruit of Southeast Asia if that is doable, but I am not averse to the latter. Also, this trip would only be for the purpose of running game in an easier environment rather than paid sex tourism - I have promised myself that I will not visit an escort until I have approached 1,000 girls without any success or the year is 2030, whichever comes first. With this in mind, what places best fit the bill in terms of nightlife, low cost, good potential for general tourist activities and reasonable female standards?

Virginity will drive a man crazy. I had pretty much completely reoriented my life away from the "full-time employed wait for the good job to get woman interested" meme that was, with a few rare green shoots , totally unproductive - to one of passport bro-ing before that was a meme. You will need a very high level of fortitude to resist EscortMaxxing to solve your sexual problem if the problem lingers on.

The Great White Hope for passport bro-ing, the former USSR, is in shambles , but there are still former communist countries in Eastern Europe that have the best prospects.

I wouldn't discount Japan for white guys - my understanding is that there are a lot of Japanese chicks that like white men with good, 6-cm circumference glans.

Southeast Asia is basically where the frustrated chumps always end up going to - as for myself, I'm not much for the Little Brown Forking Machines.

 

[MatureDJ]

I don't like this travel idea at all. I like the idea of lifting weights, getting big muscles, and working on the personality and outlook in life.

Gymcel

A gymcel is an incel who works out, believing that a muscular body will compensate for an unattractive face. Gymcels will often spend countless hours in the gym...

incels.wiki

 

[MatureDJ]

Yeah, go abroad and have a blast! Take plenty of selfies. Going to Amsterdam or some place like that? Its famous for their bike trails. People tend to bike there rather than use the car.

LOL, single men don't go to A-dam to ride bikes.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

What parts of Mexico? Keep in mind that I am not (yet) traveling to visit legal sex workers, but only to seek out legitimate ascension with a girl who genuinely wants to **** me just because she’s attracted - “betabuxxing”, such as promising a single mother a stipend to support her unplanned child in the hopes that she’ll fulfill her end of the covert contract with some starfish sex down the line, doesn’t count.

I understand you're in LadyManLand now, but food for thought for the future -

Mexicali or anyplace along the border (but not the Rio Grande Valley lolz). Mexicali has gorgeous women, many of them light skinned, and they're bored since there's nothing to do. Say you're on the way back from San Diego or visiting Algodones (which is closeby) for dental work.

 

[20Humble5050]

I understand you're in LadyManLand now, but food for thought for the future -

Mexicali or anyplace along the border (but not the Rio Grande Valley lolz). Mexicali has gorgeous women, many of them light skinned, and they're bored since there's nothing to do. Say you're on the way back from San Diego or visiting Algodones (which is closeby) for dental work.

So this applies to actual dating then? Once again I'm not interested in either paying by the hour or a sugar relationship; I may lose my virginity to an escort only if it's 2030 or I have completed all 1,000 planned approaches with no success, whichever comes first.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

So this applies to actual dating then? Once again I'm not interested in either paying by the hour or a sugar relationship; I may lose my virginity to an escort only if it's 2030 or I have completed all 1,000 planned approaches with no success, whichever comes first.

Yes, this applies to actual dating, with normal women with everyday lives.

 

[20Humble5050]

For anybody wondering, I did indeed take this trip to Thailand in the summer of last year. It was an enjoyable vacation but I got nothing "extra" out of it, partly because I was in bed a lot of the time after catching the coronavirus. I am going to bed now but I will write about it in my other thread when I get the chance: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ascension-crusade-field-reports.283923/page-2