"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Planning a summer full of sex before I get to college...tips please

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Here's a first post from you guys...been lurking a while, and the tips from here and the main site helped get me laid late junior year.

Anyway, I'm going to college in a month and a half and am planning on having some hardcore sexual experience before moving a state over. I'm accomplishing this by spinning as many plates as I can...about a quarter from online dating, the other three quarters a mixture from school and numbers gotten from elsewhere.

I took some early college classes in the city, so I'm familiar enough with the area to successfully game. At the moment I'm living and working in an isolated suburb with the parental units, so I've got a long-ass commute (it's between 10 and 20 miles from the city). Never got around to getting my license (not explaining this one) and I should have one in my hand within about a month.

So, my question to you...what should I do this month until I can drive? I have friends right here where I am, but most of the plates I'm spinning are in the city. I have enough right now to have at least one hangout every weekend aside from regular number closing, but as my connections directly there are limited I don't have really have a regular place to crash while I'm over there (cabs cost a FORTUNE, so that's out).

It'd just be damn near impossible to get a sibling to pick me up 20 miles away at 1 AM once or twice a week.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Those are some rough logistics man... unless you're going to go to the girl's place to sleep with her... I don't know. Tough.
 
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