"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Plan B contraceptive

pipe007

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hey guys
has any of you ever had to buy one of these pills, and did they work 100% in preventing unwanted pregnancies?

well today I paid visit to my ex, and we had sex. I used a trojan condom, and it was all good, and I made sure to finish outside of her gina.... (with the condom on)

so, the problem is when I finished I noticed there was semen in the tips, like it had broken, but was weird because when I cleaned it, the condom didn't seem to have a leak or have broken....

so I got a bit scared and bought her the Plan B pill..... same day.... and now she is going through the side effects....

should I be worried at this point? she took the pill within 2 hours after we had sex.. And I saw her taking it in.

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what you noticed on the tips could have been from her.

sometimes the vag juice looks like ours but its not.
 

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scorpio1138 said:
what you noticed on the tips could have been from her.

sometimes the vag juice looks like ours but its not.
Sometimes it is not vag juice, but a yeast infection! :nervous:
 

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scorpio1138 said:
what you noticed on the tips could have been from her.

sometimes the vag juice looks like ours but its not.
Exactly. When I was younger that used to freak me out. But yeah, women make a little white goo of their own. At least when you're doing things right.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thanks guys
yea it could be her fluid, it wasn't white, but transparent and sticky, that's why... the condom didn't seem to have broken...

anyway... she took the pill, and she has been vomiting now.... 3 times already .. its day 2.. and now I'm concerned about her health...

dont want her to end up in the emergency room.... she has no insurance...

damn it!!!

is it normal to have vomits teh first and second day of taking that pill?
 

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if the condom wasn't broken then it's really unlikely it was from you
 

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pipe007 said:
thanks guys
yea it could be her fluid, it wasn't white, but transparent and sticky, that's why... the condom didn't seem to have broken...

anyway... she took the pill, and she has been vomiting now.... 3 times already .. its day 2.. and now I'm concerned about her health...

dont want her to end up in the emergency room.... she has no insurance...

damn it!!!

is it normal to have vomits teh first and second day of taking that pill?
Take a few and find out for yourself. What's the worst that could happen? You don't have any ovaries to ruin. Probably.
 

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Iceberg, does it bother you that I show concern for this girl's health?

your little sad by the book "rigid" DJ self could not conceive how in the world someone could show such concern for a female?

grow up... this is life, and I am concerned that she won't end up with an allergic reaction or something.

peace.
 

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Upset stomach is a common side affect so its normal to be throwing up. Plan B is safe as long as your not taking it often.

As for the pregnancy thing, if you came outside her vagina+used a condom+used plan B=.0000001% chance of pregnancy
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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pipe007 said:
Iceberg, does it bother you that I show concern for this girl's health?

your little sad by the book "rigid" DJ self could not conceive how in the world someone could show such concern for a female?

grow up... this is life, and I am concerned that she won't end up with an allergic reaction or something.

peace.
Ah calm down, I'm kidding with you. Firstly, you're asking for very specific medical advice on a men's dating message board. Is vomiting common? How many guys on here do you honestly believe have experience with the morning after pill? You know there are medical sites and forums on the internet, right?

And secondly, you're freaking out because of some fluid you found on the outside of a condom. Fluid which I find on a condom 9 out of 10 times that I have sex. There is fluid inside a woman's vagina. You came OUTSIDE of her. You checked the condom for a leak, found none, yet just to be safe you're putting yourself through this panic attack.

If the condom broke, I could understand your concern. But it didn't. So this whole situation is laughable. All common sense and logic leads to the fluid you found belonging to your girl. Yet here she is puking her guts out and you freaking out on the internet.
 

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Im just like you, i pull out when using a condom unless i know she's on the pill.

And yes, i made her take the pill within 2 hours after pulling out, because the condom was half way off as i pulled and i wasnt sure at what point i actually started cumming.. !

I'm going to take a wild guess and say you have had a past trauma to do with pregnancy when you were young. I remember it happened to me when i was 16, i didnt sleep for 2 weeks.
 

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plan b tends to do what you described. not a fun time, but sometimes good for putting your minds at ease.
 

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Pipe---

Not to be a kill joy but maybe the 'stuff' on the outside of the Trojan was from the guy she was with an hour or two before you???...

Not being a sh!thead ...just throwin' it out there.....

Over and Out.
 
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