Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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pipe007

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hey guys
has any of you ever had to buy one of these pills, and did they work 100% in preventing unwanted pregnancies?

well today I paid visit to my ex, and we had sex. I used a trojan condom, and it was all good, and I made sure to finish outside of her gina.... (with the condom on)

so, the problem is when I finished I noticed there was semen in the tips, like it had broken, but was weird because when I cleaned it, the condom didn't seem to have a leak or have broken....

so I got a bit scared and bought her the Plan B pill..... same day.... and now she is going through the side effects....

should I be worried at this point? she took the pill within 2 hours after we had sex.. And I saw her taking it in.

thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what you noticed on the tips could have been from her.

sometimes the vag juice looks like ours but its not.
 

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scorpio1138 said:
what you noticed on the tips could have been from her.

sometimes the vag juice looks like ours but its not.
Sometimes it is not vag juice, but a yeast infection! :nervous:
 

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scorpio1138 said:
what you noticed on the tips could have been from her.

sometimes the vag juice looks like ours but its not.
Exactly. When I was younger that used to freak me out. But yeah, women make a little white goo of their own. At least when you're doing things right.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thanks guys
yea it could be her fluid, it wasn't white, but transparent and sticky, that's why... the condom didn't seem to have broken...

anyway... she took the pill, and she has been vomiting now.... 3 times already .. its day 2.. and now I'm concerned about her health...

dont want her to end up in the emergency room.... she has no insurance...

damn it!!!

is it normal to have vomits teh first and second day of taking that pill?
 

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if the condom wasn't broken then it's really unlikely it was from you
 

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pipe007 said:
thanks guys
yea it could be her fluid, it wasn't white, but transparent and sticky, that's why... the condom didn't seem to have broken...

anyway... she took the pill, and she has been vomiting now.... 3 times already .. its day 2.. and now I'm concerned about her health...

dont want her to end up in the emergency room.... she has no insurance...

damn it!!!

is it normal to have vomits teh first and second day of taking that pill?
Take a few and find out for yourself. What's the worst that could happen? You don't have any ovaries to ruin. Probably.
 

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Iceberg, does it bother you that I show concern for this girl's health?

your little sad by the book "rigid" DJ self could not conceive how in the world someone could show such concern for a female?

grow up... this is life, and I am concerned that she won't end up with an allergic reaction or something.

peace.
 

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Upset stomach is a common side affect so its normal to be throwing up. Plan B is safe as long as your not taking it often.

As for the pregnancy thing, if you came outside her vagina+used a condom+used plan B=.0000001% chance of pregnancy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pipe007 said:
Iceberg, does it bother you that I show concern for this girl's health?

your little sad by the book "rigid" DJ self could not conceive how in the world someone could show such concern for a female?

grow up... this is life, and I am concerned that she won't end up with an allergic reaction or something.

peace.
Ah calm down, I'm kidding with you. Firstly, you're asking for very specific medical advice on a men's dating message board. Is vomiting common? How many guys on here do you honestly believe have experience with the morning after pill? You know there are medical sites and forums on the internet, right?

And secondly, you're freaking out because of some fluid you found on the outside of a condom. Fluid which I find on a condom 9 out of 10 times that I have sex. There is fluid inside a woman's vagina. You came OUTSIDE of her. You checked the condom for a leak, found none, yet just to be safe you're putting yourself through this panic attack.

If the condom broke, I could understand your concern. But it didn't. So this whole situation is laughable. All common sense and logic leads to the fluid you found belonging to your girl. Yet here she is puking her guts out and you freaking out on the internet.
 

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Im just like you, i pull out when using a condom unless i know she's on the pill.

And yes, i made her take the pill within 2 hours after pulling out, because the condom was half way off as i pulled and i wasnt sure at what point i actually started cumming.. !

I'm going to take a wild guess and say you have had a past trauma to do with pregnancy when you were young. I remember it happened to me when i was 16, i didnt sleep for 2 weeks.
 

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plan b tends to do what you described. not a fun time, but sometimes good for putting your minds at ease.
 

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Pipe---

Not to be a kill joy but maybe the 'stuff' on the outside of the Trojan was from the guy she was with an hour or two before you???...

Not being a sh!thead ...just throwin' it out there.....

Over and Out.
 
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