"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Places to sarge girls 18 to 25

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Hmmmm so a friend and I went to the mall at like 1 P.M. on a Saturday afternoon... A slight mistake... There were not many girls around the age range we were looking for, 18 to 25. It was mostly 13 year olds and families... We stayed for 2 whole hours...

My question is... What would be better places to go to hit on girls age ranges 18 to 25...

College Parties, Bars, etc... ?

Thanks,
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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barne's and noble on weekday nights is good, so is the mall in the weekday afternoons

Bars and clubs are good too
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Book stores are great, especially ones with a coffee shop. I go to a cool coffee shop, not a starbucks. I study there, and get to say hi to lots of people there. Look for ones with FREE INTERNET and a homey feel. People will go there with laptops, and sit a long time. They'll be repeat visitors, so you have the option of sarging them over an extended period.
 

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College, Concerts, Bars/Clubs, not really Malls cuz they're shopping or working, Gym, Chick shops and work. (Any Fashion Store but still bad idea to date a coworker.)
 

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I found gym to be a bad idea after a few tries. They're overly protective there or something. Also hard to talk to girls on treadmills or ellipticals since most girls do cardio at gyms.

A great place I found is the college cafetaria (they usually have a large dining place similar to malls where you can get many types of fast foods). The girls are usually standing in lines and are easy to talk to. Plus you get to sit with them for a free date most of the times and get a number out of it. I did it for almost a year straight everyday for lunch to practice my conversation skills.
 

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Book stores are great
ok, I'll admit i've never had the guts to really try anything at a bookstore, but whenever I even think about it, I always get the vibe that girls are there to read their books and not be bothered. Have you actually had any success at bookstores, Thomas?
 

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Obsidian said:
ok, I'll admit i've never had the guts to really try anything at a bookstore, but whenever I even think about it, I always get the vibe that girls are there to read their books and not be bothered. Have you actually had any success at bookstores, Thomas?

I agree. It just seem that in the bookstore that woman are too concentrated in reading. Its like you have to startle them to talk to them. Now I know I am a man and it can be done, but everytime I go into a bookstore I never cold approach a girl.


To the op's original question from my real life experiences the clubs are king for the girls in this age range.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I agree this would be helpful, I see so many 16-18 year olds maybe younger and sometimes you cannot tell how old they are. I find Bars and clubs are good for actually seeing girls in the range your talking about as they generally need ID to get in. But not a great place to approach too loud etc...
 

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What if the palce you live at 97% of clubs are 21+ except on college night and you want to do more pickups during other days
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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