"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Places to sarge girls 18 to 25

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Hmmmm so a friend and I went to the mall at like 1 P.M. on a Saturday afternoon... A slight mistake... There were not many girls around the age range we were looking for, 18 to 25. It was mostly 13 year olds and families... We stayed for 2 whole hours...

My question is... What would be better places to go to hit on girls age ranges 18 to 25...

College Parties, Bars, etc... ?

Thanks,
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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barne's and noble on weekday nights is good, so is the mall in the weekday afternoons

Bars and clubs are good too
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Book stores are great, especially ones with a coffee shop. I go to a cool coffee shop, not a starbucks. I study there, and get to say hi to lots of people there. Look for ones with FREE INTERNET and a homey feel. People will go there with laptops, and sit a long time. They'll be repeat visitors, so you have the option of sarging them over an extended period.
 

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College, Concerts, Bars/Clubs, not really Malls cuz they're shopping or working, Gym, Chick shops and work. (Any Fashion Store but still bad idea to date a coworker.)
 

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I found gym to be a bad idea after a few tries. They're overly protective there or something. Also hard to talk to girls on treadmills or ellipticals since most girls do cardio at gyms.

A great place I found is the college cafetaria (they usually have a large dining place similar to malls where you can get many types of fast foods). The girls are usually standing in lines and are easy to talk to. Plus you get to sit with them for a free date most of the times and get a number out of it. I did it for almost a year straight everyday for lunch to practice my conversation skills.
 

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Book stores are great
ok, I'll admit i've never had the guts to really try anything at a bookstore, but whenever I even think about it, I always get the vibe that girls are there to read their books and not be bothered. Have you actually had any success at bookstores, Thomas?
 

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Obsidian said:
ok, I'll admit i've never had the guts to really try anything at a bookstore, but whenever I even think about it, I always get the vibe that girls are there to read their books and not be bothered. Have you actually had any success at bookstores, Thomas?

I agree. It just seem that in the bookstore that woman are too concentrated in reading. Its like you have to startle them to talk to them. Now I know I am a man and it can be done, but everytime I go into a bookstore I never cold approach a girl.


To the op's original question from my real life experiences the clubs are king for the girls in this age range.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree this would be helpful, I see so many 16-18 year olds maybe younger and sometimes you cannot tell how old they are. I find Bars and clubs are good for actually seeing girls in the range your talking about as they generally need ID to get in. But not a great place to approach too loud etc...
 

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What if the palce you live at 97% of clubs are 21+ except on college night and you want to do more pickups during other days
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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