"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Places to sarge girls 18 to 25

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Hmmmm so a friend and I went to the mall at like 1 P.M. on a Saturday afternoon... A slight mistake... There were not many girls around the age range we were looking for, 18 to 25. It was mostly 13 year olds and families... We stayed for 2 whole hours...

My question is... What would be better places to go to hit on girls age ranges 18 to 25...

College Parties, Bars, etc... ?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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barne's and noble on weekday nights is good, so is the mall in the weekday afternoons

Bars and clubs are good too
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Book stores are great, especially ones with a coffee shop. I go to a cool coffee shop, not a starbucks. I study there, and get to say hi to lots of people there. Look for ones with FREE INTERNET and a homey feel. People will go there with laptops, and sit a long time. They'll be repeat visitors, so you have the option of sarging them over an extended period.
 
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College, Concerts, Bars/Clubs, not really Malls cuz they're shopping or working, Gym, Chick shops and work. (Any Fashion Store but still bad idea to date a coworker.)
 
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I found gym to be a bad idea after a few tries. They're overly protective there or something. Also hard to talk to girls on treadmills or ellipticals since most girls do cardio at gyms.

A great place I found is the college cafetaria (they usually have a large dining place similar to malls where you can get many types of fast foods). The girls are usually standing in lines and are easy to talk to. Plus you get to sit with them for a free date most of the times and get a number out of it. I did it for almost a year straight everyday for lunch to practice my conversation skills.
 
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ok, I'll admit i've never had the guts to really try anything at a bookstore, but whenever I even think about it, I always get the vibe that girls are there to read their books and not be bothered. Have you actually had any success at bookstores, Thomas?
 
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ok, I'll admit i've never had the guts to really try anything at a bookstore, but whenever I even think about it, I always get the vibe that girls are there to read their books and not be bothered. Have you actually had any success at bookstores, Thomas?
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I agree. It just seem that in the bookstore that woman are too concentrated in reading. Its like you have to startle them to talk to them. Now I know I am a man and it can be done, but everytime I go into a bookstore I never cold approach a girl.


To the op's original question from my real life experiences the clubs are king for the girls in this age range.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree this would be helpful, I see so many 16-18 year olds maybe younger and sometimes you cannot tell how old they are. I find Bars and clubs are good for actually seeing girls in the range your talking about as they generally need ID to get in. But not a great place to approach too loud etc...
 
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What if the palce you live at 97% of clubs are 21+ except on college night and you want to do more pickups during other days
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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