Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wth? and why can't you use your place? don't tell me you live with your parents. I can see why she wouldn't want to fvck in her parents house, but what's your story?909pua said:im 30 shes 22 but dont wanna keep paying for a room...
she dont have her own place..she still lives at home with parents...i guess my car would have to be an option..
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
married...and she knows i am..makes the situation easierKal0051 said:wth? and why can't you use your place? don't tell me you live with your parents. I can see why she wouldn't want to fvck in her parents house, but what's your story?
i have an SUV... but one time she complained that people might see her naked..... like she fked up the mood! i dont know how i can instill in her mind that everything will be OK...BustedKnucks said:with the economy in shambles there are way less cops on the street at night. hope your car has a big back seat.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i do man, just bought a house last year..my house is a demilitarized zone..can't take her theredonjuanapprentice01 said:at 30 years old, you better have your own pad man.
LMAO, DUDE... that's way too funny. Guess your fvcked then, your wife might have a problem with you fvcking some 22 year old. LMAO...909pua said:married...
Kal0051 said:LMAO, DUDE... that's way too funny. Guess your fvcked then, your wife might have a problem with you fvcking some 22 year old. LMAO...
Dude I'm in no way a moral adviser or pretend to be, but if your wife asked us where she could have sex with a 22 year old hunk, what would you want us to tell her?909pua said:ahahha she doesn;t know...not a damn clue...we were having marriage problems and i found this girl..
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.