"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
donjuanapprentice01
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wth? and why can't you use your place? don't tell me you live with your parents. I can see why she wouldn't want to fvck in her parents house, but what's your story?909pua said:im 30 shes 22 but dont wanna keep paying for a room...
she dont have her own place..she still lives at home with parents...i guess my car would have to be an option..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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married...and she knows i am..makes the situation easierKal0051 said:wth? and why can't you use your place? don't tell me you live with your parents. I can see why she wouldn't want to fvck in her parents house, but what's your story?
i have an SUV... but one time she complained that people might see her naked..... like she fked up the mood! i dont know how i can instill in her mind that everything will be OK...BustedKnucks said:with the economy in shambles there are way less cops on the street at night. hope your car has a big back seat.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i do man, just bought a house last year..my house is a demilitarized zone..can't take her theredonjuanapprentice01 said:at 30 years old, you better have your own pad man.
LMAO, DUDE... that's way too funny. Guess your fvcked then, your wife might have a problem with you fvcking some 22 year old. LMAO...909pua said:married...
Kal0051 said:LMAO, DUDE... that's way too funny. Guess your fvcked then, your wife might have a problem with you fvcking some 22 year old. LMAO...
ahahha she doesn;t know...not a damn clue...we were having marriage problems and i found this girl..
Dude I'm in no way a moral adviser or pretend to be, but if your wife asked us where she could have sex with a 22 year old hunk, what would you want us to tell her?909pua said:ahahha she doesn;t know...not a damn clue...we were having marriage problems and i found this girl..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.