"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Places to check out in Manhattan

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I'm going to Manhattan in a couple of weeks. Definitely going out one or two nights. I have an appartment in Little Italy. Are there any places nearby there to check out? I'm not a club kind of guy, I can appreciate a cool bar much more. But, if there is a special place I definitely need to check out, please tell me.

I'm a big fan of rock bars/clubs by the way, so tell me about them too. And of course, there need to be hot girls, but I don't need to tell you guys ;)

If any of you live there nearby, PM me your MSN address and I
ll contact you. We can go out together. It would be f*cking cool.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Definitaley check out Fat Cat on Christopher St, not too far from lil Italy. Phebe's on 4th and Bowery has a good happy hour if you'd like to hit it up. I usually prefer Brooklyn spots though cause the people aren't as uptight and pretty laid back. I can give you a whole list if you need.
 

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SickAgain said:
Definitaley check out Fat Cat on Christopher St, not too far from lil Italy. Phebe's on 4th and Bowery has a good happy hour if you'd like to hit it up. I usually prefer Brooklyn spots though cause the people aren't as uptight and pretty laid back. I can give you a whole list if you need.
Lol. Yeah.. Christopher st has the best spots for snowdog.
 

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snowdog said:
I'm going to Manhattan in a couple of weeks. Definitely going out one or two nights. I have an appartment in Little Italy. Are there any places nearby there to check out? I'm not a club kind of guy, I can appreciate a cool bar much more. But, if there is a special place I definitely need to check out, please tell me.

I'm a big fan of rock bars/clubs by the way, so tell me about them too. And of course, there need to be hot girls, but I don't need to tell you guys ;)

If any of you live there nearby, PM me your MSN address and I
ll contact you. We can go out together. It would be f*cking cool.
Hope this helps:

http://www.venueslist.blogspot.com/

SickAgain said:
Definitaley check out Fat Cat on Christopher St, not too far from lil Italy. Phebe's on 4th and Bowery has a good happy hour if you'd like to hit it up. I usually prefer Brooklyn spots though cause the people aren't as uptight and pretty laid back. I can give you a whole list if you need.
Fat Cat is a great place for a fun time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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f283000 said:
Brother this is nyc! why do you want to waste your time there at a club/bar? there are so many things to see just walk around. When I went there I forget but I walked so many miles I only took a cab once cause it was at night and I was dead tired of walking.
Haha yea, definitely going to do that all day the whole week. But, I do want to go out at least one night and get a taste of the night life.

SickAgain said:
Definitaley check out Fat Cat on Christopher St, not too far from lil Italy. Phebe's on 4th and Bowery has a good happy hour if you'd like to hit it up. I usually prefer Brooklyn spots though cause the people aren't as uptight and pretty laid back. I can give you a whole list if you need.

Sweet. Live music & pool, sounds good to me. Also an interesting place in terms of hot chicks?

Sweet!
 

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Fat Cat and pretty much every place in NYC has hot girls. But at Fat Cat they usually roll with friends in a big group so it's harder to get in on their good side. If you really want to meet someone, try not to play the tourist card too much, because they're almost a majority out there. Trains and parks have always been good for day game for me. Regular bars and social events are good at night. Just run your normal game. NYC is good because the people are very social and friendly and there's just an unbelievable amount of people too. You'll have a great time.
 

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Snowdog,

I went Manhatten for a fortnight 3 months ago.

I found the very hottest girls mostly on 5th Avenue, especially those actually working in the stores.

Christopher Street was pretty dead during the day, but it lights up at night. Just around the corner from there is New York University.

Also everyone i talked to recommended the nightlife in Brooklyn over touristy/upper class Manhatten, where its too expensive and snobby.

Good luck. You'll be walking for miles everyday there.

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