pivitol change realized...

[damnbugs]

I have always had high standards- higher than most guys. I have always had HB-8-9-10s, with the occasional HB7 if there was something unique about her (smokin body, beautiful face or an accent- yeah I'm a sucker for accents). The girls have had to be the best looking women in the room at any given time.

I couldn't even consider a lower # HB for a one nighter. I always thought it would "leave a stain on my exterior" that the other HBs would see.
Its so bad that my friends bug me about it. And tell me that I need to at least fock one fat/ugly chick to make them feel better.

I finally started to listen to the guys talking about some of thier less than quality women and realize one thing- THEY STILL HAD FUN and it was about thier pleasure- anything she got out of it was a side benifit.

This got me to thinking that I shouldn't be so picky. I don't think I could endure a fat hairy beast, but I guess I could consider lowering my standards just a bit to up the #s and increase the frequency instead of holding out for the HB-8-9-10s.

Am I giving in? Or am I being realistic?

 

[squirrels]

Go after women you are attracted to.

If you try to pursue women "just for numbers", they will sense that you're not really interested...it comes off as uncertainty and it's a turn-off.

I've been in plenty of situations where a girl who would be a "6" or "7" has turned me on...and plenty of "9"s who didn't.

 

[damnbugs]

I agree and I do plan on only going for girls I'm attracted to. In the past I would pick them apart right away and I guess to some extent if they were below a HB7 I would bail for fear of ridicule from friends- just because I always felt that they expected better from me. I'm not sure if that makes sense?

Let me try to explain it the oppisite way; I love to land a target that makes my friends jaws drop or the HB that others have tried for and failed. This has happened in the past and I usually end up landing the HB. I did it the first few times to prove a point- I got tired of hear my friends say that the chick was "out of thier league" and did it to prove them wrong.
I am addicted to beautiful women though and I ultimatley hope to find a HB9-10 that is a real person on the inside as well- but not right now I am not looking for a GF.

Wow does any of this make sense???

 

[damnbugs]

All right- heres an update;

I have tried to lower the standards some and I am not picking them apart like I used to- I am liking this more.

I even got really drunk one night and went for a "sure thing" she was probably only a 4 or 5. She was not in shape and was some what over weight. I started to fool around with her and realize I was not interested in her at all. So I didn't let it go any further.

Right now I have one occasional BC and I am working on two very nice perspectives- time will tell...