"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pissed off... rite now... getting flaked on as we speak

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HB 6... Got this chicks number...

seems like she is really into me... we make places to hang out tonight

SHe seems really into it .... texting me at 1pm asking if we are still hanging out

We text back and forth and she says how excited she is to see me....

I told her i would get there around 9-930 so I called her at 9 to get her adress and no awnser

I went on IM and she is on there .... I imed her and no awnser


WTF it is now 920 and this HB 6 isnt even gonna call and cancel she is just not gonna awnser the phone... dam that is low of the low

I mean if she was gonna flake she could at least let me know instead of just strining me along... wow WTF
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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ever occur to you that she might be in the shower? girls are renowned for running late and not being ready.
 
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So, did you get in touch with her?
 
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For the first time, I'd give them the benefit of the doubt that they didn't purposefully blow you off. However, I think if someone accidentally blew you off, they'd call within a couple days to apologize, I know I would.

First impressions do count for a lot, and it goes both ways. You don't want to be the guy who lets her bail without notice, and you don't want her to think it's OK.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have flaked girls before by accident. Sincerely forgetting or just something came up. Just see if she ever contacts you again. I know it sucks...but go look for another chick in the meantime or go out with your friends.
 
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you sound like a dramatic female.

she blew you off? who cares.

you're rambling on like a female expecting other dramatic females to come in and agree with you.

IE:

ARrocket said:
Still nothing? Not cool.

Do NOT contact her again until she contacts you.
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ok yea so chick completely bailed out on me... Never answered her phone

Never texted or called back

I was like ok whatever


SO ...I called this other chick I was working on and we went out to dinner at applebee's

nothing really big to report... convo was hard to keep going...( felt like the dreaded interview) but I tried my best to tell stories and smile alot

I was really bored and just dropped her off at her house and was like ok well bye hahahaha.... I think she was expecting something else... overall she was a nice girl just not my style.. kinda nerdy

but yea.. the chick completely flaked on me and I honestly did not see it coming at all... usually chicks that flake will give an indication like" call me in a few days to see what im doing... etc"

This girl seemed interested up until the moment she didnt awnser my calls

w/e... that is the magic of spinning plates
 
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actually the first sign was when she texted "are we still gonna go out"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nothing happened because you went to dinner with no follow up plan. It's better to risk isolation and have her walk away than to not even try and have such low odds, but maybe you just weren't interested in her? Could be a fattie for all I know.

On the flake, hindsight is 20-20, at the time you didn't think it would be an issue so..... sometimes **** just happens. I just say focus on the 80% that don't flake, niot the 20% that do.
 
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everywomanshero said:
Nothing happened because you went to dinner with no follow up plan. It's better to risk isolation and have her walk away than to not even try and have such low odds, but maybe you just weren't interested in her? Could be a fattie for all I know.

On the flake, hindsight is 20-20, at the time you didn't think it would be an issue so..... sometimes **** just happens. I just say focus on the 80% that don't flake, niot the 20% that do.
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Nothing happened because she was not attracted. Period.
 
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ARrocket said:
Could somebody explain this one??
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OK, she was having doubts about seeing you and projected that into an "indicator question".. She really called to tell you she did not want to go but could not do it so she ended up casting doubt subconciouslly instead..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonGorgon said:
OK, she was having doubts about seeing you and projected that into an "indicator question".. She really called to tell you she did not want to go but could not do it so she ended up casting doubt subconciouslly instead..
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Exactly.
 
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DonGorgon said:
OK, she was having doubts about seeing you and projected that into an "indicator question".. She really called to tell you she did not want to go but could not do it so she ended up casting doubt subconciouslly instead..
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Can you explain it more? I don't get it, why would she remind him of the plan if she didn't wanna go, she could have just fabricated a bs story to ditch him.
 
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HB6... if she flaked she did you a favor
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lmao thats what i'm saying. Any chick is lucky to go out with me but certainly if she is a hb6 she better have a damn good body and personality.:cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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