"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is a follow-up for the "lunch date" topic. Previously posted here.

I checked the lunch for resturant A and asked "Do you like? (what they're serving on resturant A)". She said where is that served?

I said resturant A and she totally dissed my choice of resturant, I feel offended, man! I've eaten on resturant A before and it's nice. She said instead let's go to resturant B and I said sure.

Now I feel stupid/pissed of cause I said resturant A and she totally dizzed me. Should I diss her back or should I go out with her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay, you made a fundamental mistake here. Never ask a girl if they want to "go to place A" or "would prefer food B." YOU are taking HER out!

This means you make the decisions. What do YOU feel like eating?

She'll just have to live with whatever you pick. And as long as it's not something totally obscure (that means no insect restaurants) she'll be fine, trust me.


My advice?

Go to restaurant B and pretend like she never got to you. Wow her with your charm, and everything will be cool.
 
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^That was your problem. You left the decision up to her, and she shut you down. Next time TELL her where you two are going to go; dont leave the choice up to her
 
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