"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is a follow-up for the "lunch date" topic. Previously posted here.

I checked the lunch for resturant A and asked "Do you like? (what they're serving on resturant A)". She said where is that served?

I said resturant A and she totally dissed my choice of resturant, I feel offended, man! I've eaten on resturant A before and it's nice. She said instead let's go to resturant B and I said sure.

Now I feel stupid/pissed of cause I said resturant A and she totally dizzed me. Should I diss her back or should I go out with her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay, you made a fundamental mistake here. Never ask a girl if they want to "go to place A" or "would prefer food B." YOU are taking HER out!

This means you make the decisions. What do YOU feel like eating?

She'll just have to live with whatever you pick. And as long as it's not something totally obscure (that means no insect restaurants) she'll be fine, trust me.


My advice?

Go to restaurant B and pretend like she never got to you. Wow her with your charm, and everything will be cool.
 
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^That was your problem. You left the decision up to her, and she shut you down. Next time TELL her where you two are going to go; dont leave the choice up to her
 
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