"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pissed me of

sbgm

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This is a follow-up for the "lunch date" topic. Previously posted here.

I checked the lunch for resturant A and asked "Do you like? (what they're serving on resturant A)". She said where is that served?

I said resturant A and she totally dissed my choice of resturant, I feel offended, man! I've eaten on resturant A before and it's nice. She said instead let's go to resturant B and I said sure.

Now I feel stupid/pissed of cause I said resturant A and she totally dizzed me. Should I diss her back or should I go out with her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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base2ball2boy2

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Okay, you made a fundamental mistake here. Never ask a girl if they want to "go to place A" or "would prefer food B." YOU are taking HER out!

This means you make the decisions. What do YOU feel like eating?

She'll just have to live with whatever you pick. And as long as it's not something totally obscure (that means no insect restaurants) she'll be fine, trust me.


My advice?

Go to restaurant B and pretend like she never got to you. Wow her with your charm, and everything will be cool.
 

eaglez1177

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^That was your problem. You left the decision up to her, and she shut you down. Next time TELL her where you two are going to go; dont leave the choice up to her
 
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