Haha well i pissed this girl off on accident, that i was kind of talking to. Sent her a text or w/e last night saying sorry. But what if she didnt read it i got 4th period with her and can u say occward if she hasnt read it. So j/w what would be best thing to do if she didnt get to read the text.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Pissed her off
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dont mmention it act like nothing happened, just act normal around her , is hse brings it up then you can either a apologize or b just act cool and say yah so? .....
and 2. dont say it was a joke , cuz somehow girls dont liek that anymore
read the djbible
and 2. dont say it was a joke , cuz somehow girls dont liek that anymore
read the djbible
Scott Hall
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Hey yo, you need to get yourself some gold and some women, man. Then the ladies, chico? They be all over you no matter what...
Kev07
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how bad was it, and it's not like she never pissed you off, get over it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Straight forward.
Take responsibility for what you did wrong, but nothing more. Never, ever use apoligies as a tool to even the playing field with a girl once again. Only use it for the sake of facing up to something you did wrong.
Take responsibility for what you did wrong, but nothing more. Never, ever use apoligies as a tool to even the playing field with a girl once again. Only use it for the sake of facing up to something you did wrong.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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this is what you need to do:
quit posting here with little things... figure out small things on your own... you have a brain, right?
or are we your brain?
you cant rely on us when youre alone with a girl and you can ALMOST get her naked... and if you do you're going to blow it and she'll go home... then you'll get on the PC and be like... "so i was with a girl and we almsot did the dirty... she wanted to... but i just didn't know if i should have... wanted to... but i want to know what you guys would do in the situation"
i'll stop there...
quit posting here with little things... figure out small things on your own... you have a brain, right?
or are we your brain?
you cant rely on us when youre alone with a girl and you can ALMOST get her naked... and if you do you're going to blow it and she'll go home... then you'll get on the PC and be like... "so i was with a girl and we almsot did the dirty... she wanted to... but i just didn't know if i should have... wanted to... but i want to know what you guys would do in the situation"
i'll stop there...