"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pissed her off

djweses89

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Haha well i pissed this girl off on accident, that i was kind of talking to. Sent her a text or w/e last night saying sorry. But what if she didnt read it i got 4th period with her and can u say occward if she hasnt read it. So j/w what would be best thing to do if she didnt get to read the text.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Morphiex

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dont mmention it act like nothing happened, just act normal around her , is hse brings it up then you can either a apologize or b just act cool and say yah so? .....
and 2. dont say it was a joke , cuz somehow girls dont liek that anymoreo_O

read the djbible
 

Scott Hall

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Hey yo, you need to get yourself some gold and some women, man. Then the ladies, chico? They be all over you no matter what...
 

gravstar

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why would you say sorry to a chik?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KillaCam

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Straight forward.

Take responsibility for what you did wrong, but nothing more. Never, ever use apoligies as a tool to even the playing field with a girl once again. Only use it for the sake of facing up to something you did wrong.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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this is what you need to do:

quit posting here with little things... figure out small things on your own... you have a brain, right?

or are we your brain?

you cant rely on us when youre alone with a girl and you can ALMOST get her naked... and if you do you're going to blow it and she'll go home... then you'll get on the PC and be like... "so i was with a girl and we almsot did the dirty... she wanted to... but i just didn't know if i should have... wanted to... but i want to know what you guys would do in the situation"

i'll stop there...
 
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