"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Pissed at my brain

Jifto

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I can’t figure this out and I was wondering if anyone could share any light. I met up with a friend from 4 years ago today (I haven’t seen him at all in that time) and he revealed that an old ex was in a relationship, even went so far as to show me a picture of the fat ass that she’s with. I broke with her around the same time I last saw this friend and always consciously assumed that she moved on / was dating. I’ve had a couple gf / one night stands since. It’s been four years!

What I can’t figure out was my reaction. Nothing happened on the surface, but internally I’m feeling awful. It’s as if I’m 4 years younger and she cheated on me. I know rationally how ludicrous it is to feel this way, but I can’t shake it.

Any ideas what’s going on?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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It's ego. She's moved on. You ran into your past. Now you need to integrate your shadow. Face your shadow.

Leave the past in your rear view mirror. Don't look back. Learn faster.

YouTube brain slave no more. Hulse is so bang on.

Unplug. Your the jailer. Move your body. Free your body. Exercise, yoga, meditation, mna etc help me.
 

Spaz

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It's the bond that you shared, those roots sticks deep inside a person's soul long after she's gone and would take many years to uproot. The longer you have shared your life with someone the deeper the roots - the bond.

However do not mistaken it for love. It is not.
 
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