"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
pink shirts
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
superchristx
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If you wear pink shirts and have highlights in your hair, a fuzzy white hat, penny loafers and a livestrong bracelet, it shows you are a pvssy. Get the idea?
It's all about duality, when she looks at you she doesn't know what category to put you in. Know the power of the dark side.
Yeah, it's a girl thing, definitely... not to mention it's getting really old.
Although the whole dark side thing does not appeal to me, I can see why it works. Not all chicks fall for it, far from it in fact, but done properly it's as good as any trick out there.
-Bill
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Unless you're a woman, but given the type of forum this is I'm assuming you aren't.
Ben
but at the same time if ur comfortable with ur sexuality then why be bothered about what people say, if you go out sarging and u wear pink n a livestrong wristband n highlights yet u totally annihilate all the other "tuff guys" then wat difference does it really make???
my opinion is wear what u wanna wear, pink is a confident colour because it shows u do wat u wanna do, guys that dnt wear pink either dnt wear it becuase it doesnt suit them which is fair enuff because pink doesnt suit every1 but if it does and they dont wear it, then its becuase theyre scared they'll be disrespected, have u eva known gals 2 disrespact a guy that wears pink???? i dont know 1!
brosnake
Don Juan
This thread title immediately caught my eye. I have about seven pink shirts. A couple of Polo's and couple of button downs and even a pink work shirt or two. To complete the look I have custom made pink skull print Vans shoes to go with these shirts.
Example of one of my pink shirts:
( http://images1.pacsun.com/products/...cmp-hide=02&cmp-end=1&wid=300&qlt=90&cvt=jpeg )
I have black hair and dark eyes and I work out. I am definately not intimidating in the classical sense (mostly due to my glasses) but smaller guys do sometimes get out of my way. Its the contrast that's key with wearing pink. Blonde hair or people with lighter features would probably be better served wearing another color. Its the dichotomy that is interests the girls. Girls think, "Interesting. That guy is Different. He has a fashion sense. Is he gay?"
I am constantly getting unsolicited compliements from women about my pink shirts. Last night I got, "you really pull off pink well." No guy has ever even hinted or questioned my heterosexuality (to my face) at a bar/club either. Wearing pink shows you have the upmost comfort in your own sexuality. By the way I got this idea from Swinggcat's eBook, "Real World Seduction." In the book he talks about the concept of 'being a dandy' and how women love men that judge women using feminine standards. Its all about how you present yourself like was alluded to in the previous replies.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
and a fuzzy white hat.... thanks. LOL. Had to rub it in!?:crackup:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
LOL dood you seriously just described me to a T!!! I have a few salmon (pink) colored shirts, but they have designs all over them, I've got a 1/2 sleeve tattoo, a 5 o'clock shadow, shaved head and most importantly a fuvk 'em all attitude...LOL That was classic.
PIMP
mroriginal
Banned
I agree
but that's just my personal preference. Has nothing to do with self-imposed gender mores or affectations.
Dude, if you like pink, wear it, why bother asking some stupid s**t like that? It's what is underneath the shirt that should carry your game. If you let a shirt weigh you down with self-doubt, it's not the shirt's fault.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
lol even these days baby blue has become a girls color
I'd tell you what I mean, but it's a more advanced realization
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.