"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pimpology 101: The Don Juan Guide

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is pimp!


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aznbreakerjrey

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Niiiice collection of posts Pimpologist! I especially dig the flirting tip, I've gotta try that sometime. . .

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Survivor

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bump
 

BigBen69

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great collection pimp.
do u have an offline version of it?
let me know if so
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ESPN

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Its really impressive how some people just ignore most of pimp posts.

Keep the Good Job
 

syncmaster

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Great idea compiling all your posts together - I will actually read them all now. Before I wanted to read them but I was having trouble finding them all (the pimologist series)... thanks

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a.k.a ... Adam
 

Whoever

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Originally posted by BigBen69:
great collection pimp.
do u have an offline version of it?
let me know if so
I created an ebook of it for my own use and to test my new ebook software. Turns out the software is junk and it's not a very good ebook but if pimpologist gives me permission I could sent it out to anyone who wants anyway. It only includes pimpologist's posts down to booty call part II.

You have to have internet explorer on your computer in order for the ebook to work.

BTW does anyone know of any decent ebook software for under $20? Like I said the ebook software I have is junk, I would like something better.
 

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W-Ever: Just like The Don Juan Bible may be freely distributed among the members of SoSuave.com for personal use, so too may The Don Juan Guide.

Raven: Thanks for creating the Pimpology pdf file. It’s certainly a great way to review your Pimpology offline and stay on top of your game. I should be updating The Don Juan Guide this weekend.

-Pimp
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Che Guevara

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@raven: your site is unavailable dude
@pimpologist: where can i find the updated bible in pdf-file?
 

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The Don Juan Guide has been updated with the following…

Conversation Techniques:

Assumptive Questioning – Part I

Don Juan Discussion Tips:

Provide a Climactic Point for the First Date

Simplicities of the Gym Pick-Up

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Pimp’s Side Note…

There are three main stages in the development of a Don Juan:

1. Primitive stage – based solely on the knowledge of techniques and fundamentals
2. Mechanical stage – based on the application of techniques and fundamentals
3. Spontaneous stage – based on the understanding of techniques and fundamentals

-Pimp
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A. I. Kuprin

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Pimpologist..... niiiiice....
some of your posts have vanished into nirvana, though....
is there still the offline version to be gotten? Couldnt find Raven´s link on this thread.....
 

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Some of these links do not work, I clicked on the complementing part 1 and it didn't go anywhere. If anybody has a complete offline version (especially the pdf if that's still availible) post your email or MSN and I'll request it appropriately. I'd post my email address on the board but certain other people in real life know about it and I'd prefer to keep my identity secret, else face certain wraths.
 

BallZ of SteeL

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Awsome collection man! pure pimpology!

btw..if anyone have the missing content plz post it..

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Pimpologist

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I’ll update the DJ Guide when I get back in a few weeks from my trip. The original pdf didn’t include the discussion tips, only the Pimpology 101 threads from the tips section. The discussion tips are deleted by date unless they are moved to the archive, so that’s why they’re gone. The post on complimenting and number closing were not up to standard in their presentation and therefore deleted just like any other outdated, redundant or disorganized “tip”.

I’m sure there are some who still have the original pdf as well as my posts from the discussion threads. If any body has both and wants to create a pdf with both the tips and discussion posts, I don’t mind. Just post the link to the download. There’s no need to provide email addresses. Keep pimpin’…

-Pimp
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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