"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pimpology 101: The Don Juan Guide

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is pimp!


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aznbreakerjrey

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Niiiice collection of posts Pimpologist! I especially dig the flirting tip, I've gotta try that sometime. . .

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bump
 

BigBen69

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great collection pimp.
do u have an offline version of it?
let me know if so
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Its really impressive how some people just ignore most of pimp posts.

Keep the Good Job
 

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Great idea compiling all your posts together - I will actually read them all now. Before I wanted to read them but I was having trouble finding them all (the pimologist series)... thanks

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Originally posted by BigBen69:
great collection pimp.
do u have an offline version of it?
let me know if so
I created an ebook of it for my own use and to test my new ebook software. Turns out the software is junk and it's not a very good ebook but if pimpologist gives me permission I could sent it out to anyone who wants anyway. It only includes pimpologist's posts down to booty call part II.

You have to have internet explorer on your computer in order for the ebook to work.

BTW does anyone know of any decent ebook software for under $20? Like I said the ebook software I have is junk, I would like something better.
 

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W-Ever: Just like The Don Juan Bible may be freely distributed among the members of SoSuave.com for personal use, so too may The Don Juan Guide.

Raven: Thanks for creating the Pimpology pdf file. It’s certainly a great way to review your Pimpology offline and stay on top of your game. I should be updating The Don Juan Guide this weekend.

-Pimp
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Che Guevara

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@raven: your site is unavailable dude
@pimpologist: where can i find the updated bible in pdf-file?
 

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The Don Juan Guide has been updated with the following…

Conversation Techniques:

Assumptive Questioning – Part I

Don Juan Discussion Tips:

Provide a Climactic Point for the First Date

Simplicities of the Gym Pick-Up

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Pimp’s Side Note…

There are three main stages in the development of a Don Juan:

1. Primitive stage – based solely on the knowledge of techniques and fundamentals
2. Mechanical stage – based on the application of techniques and fundamentals
3. Spontaneous stage – based on the understanding of techniques and fundamentals

-Pimp
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pimpologist..... niiiiice....
some of your posts have vanished into nirvana, though....
is there still the offline version to be gotten? Couldnt find Raven´s link on this thread.....
 

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Some of these links do not work, I clicked on the complementing part 1 and it didn't go anywhere. If anybody has a complete offline version (especially the pdf if that's still availible) post your email or MSN and I'll request it appropriately. I'd post my email address on the board but certain other people in real life know about it and I'd prefer to keep my identity secret, else face certain wraths.
 

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Awsome collection man! pure pimpology!

btw..if anyone have the missing content plz post it..

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I’ll update the DJ Guide when I get back in a few weeks from my trip. The original pdf didn’t include the discussion tips, only the Pimpology 101 threads from the tips section. The discussion tips are deleted by date unless they are moved to the archive, so that’s why they’re gone. The post on complimenting and number closing were not up to standard in their presentation and therefore deleted just like any other outdated, redundant or disorganized “tip”.

I’m sure there are some who still have the original pdf as well as my posts from the discussion threads. If any body has both and wants to create a pdf with both the tips and discussion posts, I don’t mind. Just post the link to the download. There’s no need to provide email addresses. Keep pimpin’…

-Pimp
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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